Obituaries Archive

Judith A. Niemer

Judith A. “Judy” (Kerper) Niemer, age 83, of Dubuque, passed away at 8:13 a.m., on Friday, May 19, 2023, at Stonehill Health Center.  To honor Judy’s life, family and friends may visit from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m., on Tuesday, May 23, 2023, at Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, where there will be a parish scripture wake service held at 6:45 p.m.  Funeral services will be held at 11:00 a.m., on Wednesday, May 24, 2023, at the Church of the Nativity, with Rev. Andrew J. Upah officiating.  Entombment will be in the Mt. Calvary Cemetery Mausoleum.

Judy was born on November 1, 1939, in Dubuque, Iowa, daughter of John and Ellen (Tschudi) Kerper.

Judy was a life long Dubuquer who graduated from Visitation Academy.  She met the love of her life, Maurice “Maury” Niemer, at a Catholic singles event.  Maury walked up to her saying that he had heard she was a pretty good bowler and the challenge was on.  The couple went on to marry on June 13, 1964, at St. Patrick’s Church.  They were blessed with 57 wonderful years of marriage, 5 sons and several years of bowling together.  Sadly, Judy lost her beloved Maury on February 16, 2022.  She was a devoted wife and mom who volunteered her time in the learning center at Nativity School while the boys were attending school there.  After the boys were raised, she went to work as a bookkeeper at Borley Advertising and the Visitation Convent for 30 years.  Her faith was always an important aspect of her life and was evidenced by her long time membership with the Church of the Nativity, where she was head of the Eucharistic Ministers for several years.  In her free time she had many interests and hobbies.  Judy was quite the bowler and bowled in several leagues including mixed league with Maury.  She liked camping, fishing and baking cookies, especially Christmas cookies.  Judy was an incredible hostess.  Her home was always the gathering place in the neighborhood when the boys were young, and she was always happy when their friends joined them.  She loved having company and especially enjoyed visits from the grandchildren and her “grandpuppy”, Annie.  Every year Judy made sure she signed up for the annual pass at the Mississippi River Museum so that she could take all of the grandchildren to visit.  We will miss our sweet, wonderful mom and grandma tremendously, but know that she is now resting peacefully, reunited with her beloved Maury.

Those left to cherish Judy’s memory include

her 4 sons,
Kevin (Ellen) Niemer, Dubuque, IA,
Patrick (Amy) Niemer, Asbury, IA,
Gene (Kristi) Niemer, Manchester, IA
and Doug (Jenny) Niemer, Victoria, MN;

her grandchildren,
Ben, Stephanie, Megan, Kalee, Colin, Jeff, Noah, Sophia, Emma and John;

and numerous nieces and nephews.

Judy was preceded in death by her parents; her loving husband, Maury Niemer; a son, Timothy Niemer; a sister, Mary “Jill” (Thomas) Thilmany; and a brother John (Gloria) Kerper.

Judy’s family would like to thank all of the nurses and staff of UnityPoint Health Finley Hospital, Stonehill and Hospice of Dubuque for the outstanding care they have provided for Judy.

The family will thankfully receive your support through greeting cards and memorials in Judy’s memory which may be mailed to Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, Dubuque, Iowa 52001, Attn. Judy Niemer Family.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.behrfuneralhome.com

William J. Fluhr

William J. “Bill” Fluhr, 69, of East Dubuque, IL, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, May 18, 2023, at home.

Family and friends may call from 5:00 – 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, May 23rd at the Miller Funeral Home in East Dubuque.

Graveside services are 1:30 p.m. on Wednesday, May 24th at the East Dubuque Cemetery, with Deacon Mike Timmerman officiating.

Bill was born on August 11, 1953, in Dubuque, IA, the son of Robert P. and Betty Mae (Tropf) Fluhr.  He attended East Dubuque High School.

Bill was formerly employed at Ferrell Gas in East Dubuque, and later worked for the City of Dubuque Park’s Dept., from where he retired.

He enjoyed boating, fishing, his Harley motorcycle and Thursday evening outings with Grandma Betty, frequenting the Brass Ring and the 3100 Club, plus the Casino.

Surviving are two sons, Josh (Nicolle) Fluhr and Ryan (Terra) Fluhr, both of East Dubuque; two grandchildren, Brock and Madyson; a brother, Gary Fluhr, a sister, Lisa (Todd Berggren) Williams; and a niece, Erin (Josh) Timmerman.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Bob and Betty.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.millerfhed.com©

Rosemarie A. Steppan

Rosemarie A “Rea” Steppan, age 84, of Dubuque, IA, completed her earthly journey on May 17, 2023, at Stonehill Care Center while surrounded by her loving family.  To honor Rosemarie’s life, a Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, July 15, 2023, at 10:30 a.m., at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, 241 Peosta Street, Peosta, IA.  Family and friends are invited to join in fellowship for two hours prior to the service at the church.  Burial will be in the church cemetery in Centralia.  The service will be livestreamed on the Parish’s Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/stelizabethpastorate for those who cannot physically attend. The Tri-State Cremation Center is humbly serving Rosemarie’s family.

Rea was born on October 15, 1938, in LaPorte, IN, a daughter to William Henry Sr. and Emily (Neve) Westney.  She grew up with dreams of nurturing and adoring a family of her own one day and prepared herself to be the best wife and mother she could be for them.  In time, her family had moved to the Chicago area and she completed her high school education there before continuing on and earning her Bachelor’s Degree at Northeastern Illinois University.  Rea finally found her soul-mate, Edmund “Bud” Steppan, and the predestined couple was united in marriage on February 17, 1962.  They spent 61 wonderful years together raising their family, sharing in life’s adventures, and leaving behind a legacy of love and commitment that became even more visible as Rea was reunited with Bud only 21 days after he was called home to the Lord.  Two hearts had truly become one and the example they set will live on vividly within the hearts and minds of all who knew and loved them.  She spent over 25 years of her working career with Bodine Electric, both in Chicago and Peosta.  After retirement, she found a few other ways to spend her time helping others and keeping herself busy.  Rosemarie always enjoyed the outdoor activities whenever possible and if a round of golf, or a friendly softball game would make it into her day, then she was quite content to call that a successful day.  She also enjoyed bowling with family and friends as well and was a faithful member, lector, and eucharistic minister at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, as well as a longtime member of St. Benedict’s Church in Chicago.  Rea was the finest example of love and light we could hope to see in our daily walks.  Her easy-going demeanor, coupled with her devotion to all that was good in this world, left no room for anything but love and acceptance to flow forth from her in words, thoughts and actions alike.  The world is surely a lesser place today without the essence of Rosemarie walking among us.  Mom and Dad leave behind many broken hearts today, but we are thankfully able to find peace in the fact that they are back together once again, and now for all of eternity and in a state of perfection.  Thank you, Rea, for being exactly the kind of woman the Lord made you to be and may He bless you abundantly as you hear the words you’ve been waiting patiently for; well done good and faithful servant, well done!

Those left behind to cherish the memory of Rosemarie include,

her four sons,
Ed (Anne) Steppan, III, St. Anne, IL,
Tim (Angela) Steppan, Hartford, S.D.,
Bob Steppan, Bolingbrook, IL,
and Bill (Jenny) Steppan, Dubuque, IA;

her five grandchildren,
Tim (Rachel) Steppan, Kevin (Hannah) Steppan, Mark Steppan, Amber (Mark) Dye, and Vivian Steppan;

her three great-grandchildren,
Freya Steppan, Greta Steppan, and Isabella Dye;

her brother-in-law,
Robert Ladlaw, North Carolina;

along with numerous extended family, friends, and neighbors.

Rea was preceded in death by her parents; her loving husband of 61 years, Bud Steppan; and her siblings, William Henry Westney Jr., Robert (Lynne) Westney, Delphine (Ben) Ladenthin, Fern (Warren) Johnson, and Marilyn Ladlaw.

Rosemarie’s family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Stonehill and Hospice of Dubuque for all their professional and compassionate care of Rea and her family.  Losing both Mom and Dad within 21 days of each other is as difficult a reality as we could ever have to face in this life, but being surrounded by such a wonderful staff and feeling your sincere support through each day has truly made these beyond difficult days just a little more bearable.  We are beyond grateful for each and every one of you and may the Lord bless you all for your kindnesses.

Online condolences may be shared with Rosemarie’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com

Earl Rettenmeier

Earl Rettenmeier, 92, of Dubuque died Thursday, May 18, 2023, at home surrounded by family.

A prayer service will be held at 3:00 pm Tuesday, May 23, 2023 at Hoffmann Schneider & Kitchen Funeral Home & Crematory followed by visitation until 7:00 pm.

The Mass of Christian Burial for Earl will be 10:30 am Wednesday, May 24, 2023, at Holy Spirit Parish – Sacred Heart Catholic Church with Father Steven Garner as the Celebrant.  Burial will be in Mount Calvary Cemetery in Dubuque.  Full military honors will be rendered by the American Legion Post #6.

Earl was born on January 22, 1931 on the family farm in Lower Balltown, Iowa, the son of Fred and Alvina (Meyer) Rettenmeier. He married Marlene Lex on August 16, 1958.

Earl went to grade school in Balltown, and joined the Navy in 1953, serving until 1956. He was able to participate in the Honor Flight with his brother, Howard, in 2012. He worked 30 years at John Deere Dubuque Works, retiring in 1986. He was an active member of Local 94, serving as a union steward. As he prepared for his retirement, he became an inaugural kennel owner with his friend Joe Lent at Dubuque Greyhound Park. Earl was an active member at Sacred Heart (now Holy Spirit) Parish, having worked on various committees including Finance, Fall Festival, and Renovation. He was a member of the American Legion Post #6.  He was also on the Grounds Committees for the Dubuque Arboretum.

Earl was an avid baseball fan, following the Brooklyn / L.A. Dodgers, playing and managing for the Balltown semi-pro team and coaching the Bulldogs/Bears Independent League baseball team. He was inducted into the Hall of Fame for Dubuque County Baseball (2011) and Independent League (1986.)

Earl was a family man. In addition to coaching his sons in baseball, he loved snowmobiling in the Winter, and boating in the Summer. He was also a lifelong fan of the Wahlert Golden Eagles, attending most football, basketball and baseball games over the past 50 years. He was a friend to many, and will forever be remembered for his infectious cackling laugh.

Survivors include his wife of 64 years, Marlene, of Dubuque; children, Ruth Gallo, Nancy (CJ) Pape, Joe (Lisa) Rettenmeier, and John (Carrie Schmid) Rettenmeier, all of Dubuque; six grandchildren and four great-grandchildren; brother, Howard Rettenmeier of Dyersville ; sisters, Elaine Link and Mert Habel, both of Dubuque; and brothers- and sisters-in-law, Allen and Mary Ann Lex, Bob and Shirley Lex, and Carol and Janice Lex.

He was preceded by his parents, sister, Janette Slattery, sisters-in-law, Shirley Rettenmeier, Rita Brimeyer; brothers-in-law, Gus Slattery, Jim Habel, Lyle Link, Jim Lex, Lavern Lex and Willie Brimeyer.

The family would like to extend a special thank you to Carol and Amy from Home Instead, Stonehill Care Center, Dr. Salas, and Dr. Horchek, Hospice of Dubuque nurse Julie and his favorite nurse, daughter Ruth.

In lieu of flowers, memorials have been established to Hospice of Dubuque and Holy Spirit Parish .

A photo tribute can be viewed and condolences sent to the family by visiting Earl’s obituary at www.hskfhcares.com.

Kay F. Coyle

Kay F. Coyle, age 87, of Dubuque, IA, passed away on May 16, 2023 surrounded by her loving family.

She was born on January 7, 1936, in Peoria, IL, to Wilbur and Elna (Chenoweth) Hendricks. After graduating from Woodruff High School with the Class of 1954, she worked as an operator at Bell Telephone. In 1956 she married Robert E. “Bob” Coyle in El Paso, IL. They then resided in Peoria where they welcomed their three children. In 1965 the family relocated to Dubuque, and in 1975 she returned to work for Northwestern Bell. Kay and Bob celebrated 47 years of marriage before his passing in 2003.

Kay’s passion, and true gift in life, was her devotion to family. During her children’s school years, Kay was active in P.T.A., Cub Scouts and the various other activities they were involved in. Once grandchildren arrived, she frequently traveled to attend their sporting events, recitals, and birthdays. She enjoyed spoiling them with an endless supply of McDonald’s and Dairy Queen gift cards.

Kay was a faithful member of Immanuel U.C.C., serving on the bell choir and as a volunteer. She was also a member of the Democratic Party and served on the election board. In her spare time, Kay was an avid reader, a talented seamstress, and enjoyed knitting and crocheting.

Kay was a fantastic mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin, and friend. She touched the lives of so many people. She will truly be missed and will never be forgotten.

Kay was preceded in death by her parents, Wilbur and Elna; her husband, Bob; her brother, Larry Hendricks, and her sister, Janet (Damon) Deal. She is survived by her three children, Linda (Jon) Burshiem, Dianna (Al) Stumph, and Robert E. (Carrie) Coyle II; eight grandchildren, Philip Bleile, Al (Sarah) Stumph, Eric Burshiem, Robert (Christie) Coyle, Jesse (Brittany) Stumph, Sabrina (John) Dolohanty, Katherine (John Ross) Langdon, and Clark Coyle; twelve great-grandchildren, Isaac, Jordin, Taylor, Everett, John Michael, Kal, Kade, Jalen, Rose, Kolton, Hazel, and Helena; her sister, Joyce “Lynn” (Tony) Adams; her sister-in-law, Judy Hendricks, and brother-in-law, Ed (Judy) Coyle.

Arrangements are being made by Tri-State Cremation Center and a Celebration of Life is currently being planned—details will be available on their website in the coming weeks. Online condolences may be shared with Kay’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com.

Karen A. Leisen

Karen Ann (Heaser) Leisen, a long-time resident of Dubuque, IA, passed away peacefully at the age of 80 years due to ALS-related complications on Wednesday, May 17, 2023.

Visitation will be held 3:00 -7:00 p.m, Wednesday, May 24, 2023, at Hoffmann Schneider & Kitchen Funeral Home. The Mass of Christian Burial for Karen will be held at 10:30 a.m., Thursday, May 25, 2023, at Church of the Nativity. Burial will follow at Linwood Cemetery.

Karen was born April 7, 1943, in Winona, MN, the daughter of Ralph Victor and Elizabeth “Betty” Ellen (Mogren) Heaser. In 1960, she began pursuing a liberal arts degree at University of Minnesota, Twin Cities. On December 4, 1965, she married Vincent “Vince” Mathew Leisen of Plainview, MN, at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Minneiska, MN. In 1967, the couple moved to Dubuque, IA, and started their family, which grew to number six daughters and three sons.

Karen dedicated a great deal of time to the Church of the Nativity, filling many parish roles over the past five decades: Archdiocese of Dubuque pastoral associate, parish visitor, cantor, sacristan, eucharistic minister, choir member and was involved in a multitude of church-based organizations and committees. She especially enjoyed her position as parish visitor-spending time with parishioners who were homebound or in nursing homes, keeping them connected to their church community, and serving them communion.

Known to be first to raise her hand when Dubuque community organizations needed help, Karen volunteered her time as 4-H leader, Boy Scout leader, Dubuque Symphony Orchestra greeter, Shalom Spirituality Center volunteer, Dubuque Youth Hockey Organization registrar and treasurer, and much more. An avid Dubuque Fighting Saints fan, Karen often sang the national anthem for games held at Five Flags Center, and opened her home to the team, housing multiple players over the years. She ran a home-based child daycare for nearly 40 years. She was co-owner and bookkeeper for Dubuque Appliance Center, the business co-founded by her husband, Vince.

In 1984, Karen enrolled at Loras College in Dubuque to finish earning the degree she started working towards 24 years earlier in Minnesota. In May 2019, then-76-year-old Karen became the oldest graduating student in the 180-year history of Loras College, receiving her bachelor’s degree in liberal arts.

Karen is survived by her devoted husband, Vince; her nine beloved children: Jean (Norman) Bondoc of Madison, WI, Teresa Sellinger of Sparta, NJ, Steven (Tammi) Leisen of Urbandale, IA, Amy (John) Ouellette of Murfreesboro, TN, Daniel (Theresa) Leisen of Dubuque, Diana (Michael) Moroney of Dubuque, Angela (Jack) Seeley of Charlotte, NC, Molly Leisen of Dubuque, and Anthony (Morgan) Leisen of St. Paul, MN; her 23 cherished grandchildren: Evan, Peyton, Delaney and Haley Bondoc, Griffin, Devin and Alexandra Sellinger, Vincent Leisen, Morgan, Zachary and Samantha Ouellette, Natalie and Isabel Leisen, Brock, Connor, Nicholas and Madeline Moroney, Olivia, William, Elena and Caroline Seeley, Robert and Ethan Leisen; and her three treasured brothers: Ralph (Darlene) Heaser, Jr. of Kellogg, MN, Kenneth (Patti) Heaser of Minneiska, MN, and Michael (Donna) Heaser of Minneiska, MN.

Karen is preceded in death by her parents, Ralph and Betty Heaser, and her father- and mother-in-law, Joseph and Julia Leisen.

A special thank you to the wonderful staff members of Bethany Home and Hospice of Dubuque for their incredible dedication and care.

In lieu of flowers, a memorial has been established.

Hoffmann Schneider & Kitchen Funeral Home and Crematory is in care of the arrangements.

Virgil J. Roeder

Virgil J. Roeder, age 90, passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, May 14th, in Tucson, AZ, following a 17-month long courageous battle with Acute Myeloid Leukemia.

Services will be held at 10 am June 3rd, at the Marana Mortuary officiated by Father Jim Shea. Military honors will be presented by the Davis Monthan AFB Honor Guard. Interment will be at the Marana Veterans Memorial Cemetery at a later date.

The youngest son of Gerald and Myrtle (Peterman) Roeder, Virgil was born on September 5th, 1932, on the family farm in Jackson County, Iowa. His family moved from the farm to Spragueville, Iowa, where Virgil grew up helping his family run the Roeder General Store. He had many fond memories from this chapter in his life that provided the basis for many of the great stories he told later in life. Following graduation from Preston, Iowa High School in 1951, he enlisted in the USAF during the Korean War. He served honorably from 1953 – 1957. On August 4th, 1953, Virgil married the love of his life, June (Cook) Roeder, the start of a lifelong love affair filled with joy and happiness. Together they had 5 children: Nancy, Mark, Susan, Scott and Troy.

Following his discharge from the USAF, he took full advantage of VA education benefits to enroll in the Business Administration Program, College of Business at the University of Iowa, completing his BBA degree in three years.

Virgil worked at the John Deere Dubuque Tractor Works from 1961 until his retirement in 1986. During much of that time he served as the Payroll Supervisor, a position he thoroughly enjoyed.  Never one to sit still, Virgil returned to the workforce from 1991 – 2001, working in Patient Accounts at the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics.

Seeking a warmer climate, Virgil and June moved to Tucson, AZ, but continued annual summer trips to Iowa in their motor home to visit family and friends. Always wanting to keep busy, Virgil started his third career in Tucson, working at Safeway Grocery Store from 2007-2020 where he made many new friends. He reluctantly retired for good at the age of 88 and only because of the pandemic.

Throughout their lives together, Virgil and June enjoyed traveling and attending sporting events. They traveled throughout the United States, toured Europe and Hawaii, and took their extended family on five Caribbean cruises.  But their greatest pleasure was attending University of Iowa sporting events, including the 1991 Rose Bowl.  They supported Women’s Basketball at the University of Iowa and followed daughter Susan, attending her home and away games as she played on the team during the early years of the Iowa Women’s Basketball program. In addition, Virgil loved tinkering with cars, including a ’67 Mustang, two MGs, and two Triumph TR6s. His last toy was a 2000 Lexus convertible in mint condition to this day.

Virgil was a member of the John Deere Supervisors Club and a Lifetime Member of the University of Iowa Alumni Association.  Virgil was also a member of the Tucson Hawkeye Club where he and June were presented with the Hawkeye Spirit Award in 2021.

Virgil was preceded in death by his parents, Gerald and Myrtle Roeder; his brother Dr. Donald Roeder; and his sister, Marjorie Van Dorn.

Virgil is survived by June, his loving wife of 69 years, their children: Nancy (Dr. Tom Plamondon); Mark (Lynann); Susan; Scott (Kristine); and Dr. Troy (Stacy Hurry); his grandchildren: Jonathan, Kathleen, Jacob, Kaitlyn, Tirfie, and Dr. Jaclyn; numerous nieces and nephews; and very close family friends, Sheryl Nosbish and Jerry Nelson.

Virgil was a loving husband and father, offering unlimited support and encouragement to his children and grandchildren. Possessing a positive, and “can-do” attitude, along with an accepting personality, he left a lasting impression on so many people, making lifelong friends, and ultimately met his cancer head on, without complaint to the end. Virgil was a “people person”, always striving to put others before himself. In addition, he was as quick with a story as he was with lending a helping hand. In short, Virgil loved life and it showed. He will be greatly missed by all who were fortunate enough to have met him. In good times and in bad times dad always reminded us, “It’s all part of the fun!”

June and the family want to express their gratitude to the entire staff at the University of Arizona Cancer Center for their world-class care. They also wish to thank the crew from Station 34 at Northwest Fire Department and the Marana Police Department for their compassionate response.

In lieu of flowers, please consider sending memorials to the State University of Iowa Foundation (designate Ophthalmology & Visual Services) or the University of Arizona Cancer Research Center.

Stephen T. Supple

Stephen “Steve” Thomas Leo Supple (76) died on May 17, 2023, due to complications of multiple myeloma, with his family by his side.

His celebration of life will be held Monday, May 22, with a wake from 9am-11am at St. Raphael Cathedral where a Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 a.m. with Fr. Philip Thompson officiating. A private family burial will be held in Calvary Cemetery in Cascade, Iowa. Leonard Funeral Home & Crematory, Dubuque, Iowa is assisting the family.

Steve was born in Cascade, Iowa, on December 24, 1946, to John and Kate Supple, joining his sister, Jeanne, and to be joined by his brother Roger. He began his education in a one-room schoolhouse in Temple Hill, Iowa. In the third grade, he switched to St. Martin’s School in Cascade, and met the love of his life, Jan Crowley. They attended and graduated from St.Thomas Aquinas high school in 1965. Steve went on to earn his bachelor’s in agronomy from Iowa State University and was a Cyclone fan his entire life.

Steve and Jan were married on June 1, 1968, at St. Martin’s Church in Cascade, Iowa. They farmed together in the Temple Hill area for four decades with their children, Jenn and B.J. Steve believed in serving his community and those in it, as Soil Commissioner, member of the Swiss Valley Board, Pork Producers, FFA, 4H, his children’s schools and sports teams, the CARE Foundation, and St. Raphael’s Cathedral. The center of his service heart was Camp Courageous, where he served as a Board Member, Foundation Board Member, traffic director, corn husker, sausage donator and cooker, tree stump remover, cook and server for campers, hayride driver, sidewalk and train track layer, donation handler, and volunteer for every fundraiser Camp held while he was involved there, with Jan by his side. Some of the honors he received for his community service were the 9 Who Care Award, the JCPenney Award, and the Governor’s Volunteer Award.

Steve’s dedication to serving his community was second to one thing, his love for his family. Steve adored (and adored teasing) his wife, Jan. He attended every one of his kids’ activities, sometimes sitting by himself in the stands because he came straight from the field and his farm clothes were a little…ripe. He was known as Pickin’ Papa by his grandchildren, whom he delighted in dumping from the bucket of his loader tractor into snowdrifts, teaching them to drive the Gator and four-wheeler, and watching them sing, act, dance, and sport across Iowa and Wisconsin. He was deeply loved and will be deeply missed.

Steve is survived by his wife, Jan, his sister, Jeanne (Ernie Driscoll), his brother, Roger Supple, his daughter Jenn and her children Max, Miles, and Delilah, and his son, B.J. and his children Charlie and Lucy.

Steve’s family would like to thank all those who supported Steve through his recent health challenges, especially the medical staff at Finley Hospital and Stonehill Health Center. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Camp Courageous of Iowa.

Sr. Helen Glynn, OP

Sister Helen Glynn, OP, died May 16, 2023, at MercyOne Dubuque Medical Center. She was born to James and Helen (O’Hare) Glynn on April 30, 1936, in Chicago. There were six children. She is survived by a brother, Patrick Glynn of Palos Hills, IL., two sisters, Eileen Ward and Sister Gloria Glynn, OP both of Oak Lawn, IL., many nieces, nephews and her Dominican Family.

Helen joined the Sinsinawa Dominicans in 1967. She taught first grade for a year then high school theology for four years in River Forest, IL. Sister Helen spent 17 years in Santa Cruz and Cochabamba, Bolivia. She was a pastoral agent, worked in faith formation and tended to medical needs as a licensed practical nurse.  All through the years Sister Helen studied theology, often sharing her gifts with parishes in the Oak Lawn, IL. Area. She was a treasured member of the Glynn family. Her independent spirit, cheerful and engaging personality, and her search for truth were hallmarks of a life well lived.

Funeral services will be at Sinsinawa on Tuesday, May 23rd at 6:30pm and Wednesday, May 24 at 10:30am. Miller Funeral Home is handling arrangements.

Helen rise in joy. Alleluia!

John F. Bechen

John “Jack” F. Bechen, 72, of Dubuque, passed away on May 16, 2023, surrounded by family.

The family will hold a celebration of life for John on May 29, 2023, from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at their home. Leonard Funeral Home & Crematory is assisting the family. Online condolences may be left at www.leonardfuneralhome.com .

John was born on August 15, 1950, the son of Olin and Helen (Block) Bechen.  He married Sandra K. Bechen (Thomas) on December 24, 1971, in Dubuque.

John lived a good life, not long enough, but a good one.  He loved the outdoors, especially the place he called home.  He was always a proud dad, following Jim and Jason in all their sports and teaching them all sorts of things – both good and bad!  He worked hard and retired early!!  He loved rides in Ol’ Blue with Sandy and their frequent stops at Dairy Queen on Rhomberg.  Always there with his quick wit and a joke!

His favorite role in life was being Papa John – he played such a special role in all five of the grandkid’s lives.  From watching Blake and Bryce play all their sports, to Snapchat filters with Ava, then Port Washington and cottage trips with Clare and Ella.  He created wonderful memories for them all to remember forever.  To know John was to love him, he certainly left his mark here and will be missed dearly by his family.  We will miss hearing “Hey when did you get here?” the most.

Survivors include his wife, Sandy; son Jim (Tracy), their children Blake, Bryce and Ava; son Jason (Kate), their children Clare and Ella; brother Mike (Laurie) Bechen; Sisters: Jean (Jerry) Kirton, Deb (Mike) Leach, and Terry (Chuck) Lynch; Brother-in-laws: Steve (Julie) Thomas, Stan (Carla) Thomas, Scott (Alesia) Thomas, Shawn (Peggy) Thomas, Rick Lang; Sister-in-laws: Sharon (George) Abresch, Sheila White, Sharlene (Mick) Cornwell, Stacey (Jim) LaPage and Suzanne (Randy) Ristau; along with many nieces and nephews.

He is preceded in death by his parents Olin and Helen Bechen; son John Jr. in infancy; brothers Eddie and Kevin; mother-in-law Dottie Thomas; father-in-law Vern Thomas; sister-in-law Sally Lang; brother-in-law Bill (ChillyWilly) Tharp

The family wishes to give special thanks to Angela Hubanks, Jenn Birch, Dr. Jedlicka, and Dr. Bland for all the help they have given John over the years and all the nurses in the ICU at Finley.

Sally A. Lang

Sally Ann Lang, 60, of Dubuque, Iowa passed away on May 17, 2023 at home surrounded by her family.

A funeral service will be at 10:30 a.m. on Tuesday, May 23rd, 2023 at Leonard Funeral Home & Crematory, 2595 Rockdale Road with Rev. Dianne Grace officiating. Burial will follow in Mount Olivet Cemetery. A visitation will be held from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Monday, May 22, 2023 at Leonard Funeral Home & Crematory, 2595 Rockdale Road.

Sally was born on August 3, 1962 in Dubuque, Iowa the daughter of Vernon and Dorothy (Kremer) Thomas. She married Richard A. Lang Jr. on May 2, 1998.

She worked as a CNA and a Receptionist.

She enjoyed camping, spending time with grandkids, playing darts, listening to live music and crafts.

Sally is survived by her and Richard’s children: Steven Thomas, Ronald (Samantha Ivanov) Thomas, Jerome Lang, Nikiesha (Robert) Gatena, Megan Lang, Courtney (Ryan) Horkheimer, Jamie Green, and Tonya (Jeff) Huseman. Thirty two grandchildren and seven great grandchildren.

She is also survived by her siblings: Sandra Bechen, Sharon (George) Abresch, Steve (Julie) Thomas, Sheila White, Stanley (Carla) Thomas, Sharlene (Mick) Cornwell, Scott (Alesia) Thomas, Shawn (Peggy) Thomas, Stacey (Jim) LaPage, and Suzanne (Randy) Ristau. Also surviving are her mother-in-law Phyllis Lang and numerous nieces and nephews. Her very special foster family Bob and Ellen Vandermuelen, Bobbie Jo Zeller, William “Bill” Cheever, Brian Cheever and Brent Cheever.

Sally is preceded in death by her son James Alan; her parents; father-in-law Richard Lang Sr.; mother-in-law Leilani Lang; granddaughter Ronnie;  grandsons Chad and Charlie; nephews John Jr. Michael and Josh and her niece Michelle and her brother-in-law John Bechen.

A special thank you to Hospice of Dubuque especially Jeremiah, Dr. Hermann and staff, to her Sister Susie Ristau and family and friends for the wonderful care, kindness and compassion.

Sr. Alda Thilges

SISTER ALDA (FLORENCE) THILGES, OSF, 103 of Clare House, Dubuque, Iowa, passed away at 9:45 a.m. Tuesday, May 16, 2023 at Clare House.

The Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Clare House Chapel, Mount St. Francis Center at 1:00 p.m. on Tuesday, May 23, 2023. Masks are optional. Guests unable to attend may participate via livestream at: www.youtube.com/dubuquefranciscans

Burial will be in Mount Calvary Cemetery.

Sister Alda was born on May 15, 1920, at St. Joseph, IA the daughter of Henry and Anna (Reding) Thilges

She entered the Sisters of St. Francis on September 8, 1939 and made her final profession of vows August 12, 1945. Sister attended Loras College, Dubuque, IA. She ministered as a homemaker in Iowa at Bancroft, Ionia, and Dubuque. Missions in Illinois included Mary of the Woods, Chicago, and St. Christopher in Midlothian.

Sister is survived by her nieces, nephews, and her Franciscan sisters.

Sister was preceded in death by her parents; her sister Alida (Walter) Bradley; and brothers Harold (Katie) Thilges, Henry (Doris) Thilges, and Alvin Thilges.

The Sisters of St. Francis express their thanks to Hospice of Dubuque for their palliative care and concern.

Memorials may be given to the Sisters of St. Francis, Dubuque, IA.

The Miller Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

Brian J. Wulfekuhle

Brian Joseph Wulfekuhle, 57, of Petersburg, Iowa passed away after a short battle with cancer on May 17, 2023 surrounded by family and friends. Brian was born May 4, 1966 to Joe and Pat (Oberbroeckling) Wulfekuhle in Dubuque, Iowa. He attended Beckman Catholic High School graduating in 1984.

Visitation will be held from 2 – 8 p.m. on Monday, May 22, 2023, at Kramer Funeral Home in Dyersville, Iowa. Visitation will continue Tuesday from 9 – 10:15 a.m. at the funeral home prior to the services.

A mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Tuesday, May 23, 2023, at SS. Peter and Paul in Petersburg with burial in the church cemetery, officiated by Rev. Chris Podhajsky.

Brian was not one to mince words, he said it how it was and that’s why so many people loved him. He was an honest, fun loving guy who would help anyone.

Brian loved hanging out with his amazing friends, playing cards, pool, darts and frequenting Thai-1-On in Edgewood. He may have been known to search out new friends during casino nights, someone that looked like they were lonely and needed uplifting, that’s just who he was. Gator rides were a favorite pastime, you could regularly find him cruising Delaware County on his John Deere XUV 835R checking out the fields or helping out anyone who needed a hand.

The Farm is where he called home and took great pride in helping his parents keep the farm running smoothly.

Brian was the kind of guy that enjoyed the simple things in life. He was one of a kind that will never be forgotten. Enjoy the ride Stubbles – fly high and keep the Budweiser cold up there for the rest of us.

Brian is survived by his parents, siblings Terry (Sue) Wulfekuhle of Petersburg, Cheryl (John) Castaneda of Prescott Valley AZ, Sandy (Dan) Mormann of Colesburg, Lynn (Tim) Wendling of Dyersville, and Jayme (Jen) Wulfekuhle of New Vienna and his 14 nieces and nephews who could always count on him to teach them how to have fun – there was no one like Uncle Brian, and 18 great nieces and nephews with one on the way.

He is preceded in death by his grandparents Felix and Rose Oberbroeckling, Gregory and Cecelia Wulfekuhle, a nephew Gus Mormann and several aunts and uncles.

The family extends a special thank you to Dr. Hermann and the nurses at the Wendt Cancer Center in Dubuque and all the family and friends that continuously stopped in during the past 6 weeks.

Brian was Brian!

Kramer Funeral Home in Dyersville is assisting the family and information is available at www.kramerfuneral.com.  Memorials may be sent to the family, (in care of Kramer Funeral Home) 750 12th Ave SW, Dyersville, IA  52040.

Marvin H. Goetz

Marvin H. Goetz, 94, formerly of Bellevue, passed away on Saturday, May 13, 2023 at Hiawatha Care Center.

Funeral Service will be 11:00 am, Monday, May 22, 2023 at Hachmann-Mier Funeral Home & Cremation Service in Bellevue.  Family will greet friends 9:30 am until services at the funeral home.  Burial with Military Honors conducted by Bellevue American Legion Post #273 will be in St. John Lutheran Cemetery in Bellevue.

Marvin was born, January 31, 1929, the son of Harold and Nellie (Patch) Goetz.  He graduated from Bellevue Community High School in 1946 and then graduated from Wartburg College in 1950.  Marvin served his county in the US Air Force and then married Marlene Joan Buchman on April 10, 1955, she passed on September 18, 2017.  He owned and operated Goetz & Son Implement in Bellevue and Maquoketa until retiring in 1983.  Marvin also had a car dealership and sold appliance in Bellevue for a short time.  He retired and then sold real estate in Bellevue and then after moving to Tucson, Arizona he continued to sell real estate for many years.  Marvin was a member of the Bellevue American Legion Post #273, Lion Club, Maquoketa Hospital Board, St. Johns Lutheran Church and Wartburg Choirs.  He enjoyed golfing, hunting, fishing, and spending time with his family.

Survivors include a son, Craig (Roxanne) Goetz; a daughter, Lori (Robert) Traeger; grandchildren, Brendan (Anna) Gorman, and Andrea (Marshall) Thorp; and great-grandchildren, Delvid, Darling, Jonas, and Liam.

Marvin was preceded in death by his parents, Harold Goetz and Nellie Goetz-Beeler; an infant sister, Adelheid; his wife, Marlene; a daughter, Ann Goetz; his step-father George Beeler; and step-sisters, Betty, Joyce, and Marilyn.

A memorial fund has been established in Marvin’s memory.

Online condolences may be expressed to the family at www.hachmannfuneralhome.com

Elno A. Coulson

Elno A. “Al” Coulson, age 84, of Dubuque, IA, completed his earthly journey on May 15, 2023, at Harmony Care Center in Dubuque, while surrounded by his loving family.  To honor Al’s life, a private family graveside service is being held at Mt. Calvary Cemetery in Dubuque.  The Tri-State Cremation Center is humbly serving Al’s family.

Al was born on October 28, 1938, in Windom, MN, a son Archie and Della (Jensen) Coulson.  He spent most of his life as a truck driver, but was also the proud owner of Key City Vending for many years.  Al was married to Mary Lou Sitz and the couple was blessed with many wonderful years together and three children before she was sadly called home ahead of him.  Thankfully, Al found the joy of companionship once again with Sandy Bush in his later years.  Al always enjoyed hunting and fishing in his free-time and appreciated any opportunity to be in the outdoors whenever possible.  We will miss Al and his independent spirit moving forward, but thankfully he leaves behind an abundance of memories which will surely help to ease the pain our hearts carry today.  Thank you, Al, for always being true to yourself and may peace be yours now as we wait patiently to see you face to face once again.

Those left behind to cherish the memory of Al include,

his children,
Scott (Tina) Coulson, Dubuque, IA,
Doug Coulson, Phoenix, AZ,
and Robin (Mark) Kelleher, Dubuque, IA;

his 15 grandchildren;

his 33 great-grandchildren;

his siblings,
Lonnie Coulson, Fairmont, MN,
and Connie Sutherland, Windom, MN;

his step-children,
Bob Coulson, CO,
and Cheryl (Owen) Rohr, Dubuque, IA;

his dear friends,
Sandy Bush, Dubuque, IA,
and Kris, Deb, and Sheri;

his good friends,
Gary Pfohl and Earl Lape;

along with numerous extended family, friends, and neighbors.

Al was preceded in death by his parents; his wife, Mary Lou (Seitz) Ruble Coulson; his siblings, Bob, Duke, Jack, Jim, Darlene, and Jo Ann; his granddaughter, Stephanie Coulson Rettenmaier; and his step-son, Terry (Linda) Ruble.

Al’s family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Finley Hospital, Harmony Care Center, and Hospice of Dubuque, especially Buffy, for all of their professional and compassionate care of Al and his family during these last weeks.  Your kindness and patience has truly brought some much appreciate peace into these very difficult days.

Online condolences may be shared with Al’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com