Obituaries Archive

Marc F. De Young

Marc F. De Young, 75 of Galena, IL passed away Monday, May 15, 2023, at Midwest Medical Center, Galena. A funeral mass will be held at 11 AM, Saturday, June 3, 2023, at St. Mary’s Catholic Church, Galena where friends may gather after 10 AM until the time of mass. The burial will be in the church cemetery. Military honors will be accorded graveside by Galena VFW Post #2665 and American Legion Post #193. Cremation rites have been accorded. The Furlong Funeral Chapel, Galena is assisting the family.

He was born October 8, 1947, in Guam the son of George and Marian (Ziemba) De Young. Marc served in the United States Army from 1968 serving in Turkey until his honorable discharge in 1970. Marc was employed by the Chicago Board of Education for thirty years until his retirement. He and his wife moved to Cedar Rapids, IA where he worked for the Holy Family School System. They then made their home in Galena where he worked for the Eagle Ridge Resort maintenance department. Marc worked hard all his life. He was a good man and a jack of all trades who loved to be busy. Marc was always there for anyone who needed help to lend a hand. Dementia and cancer may have taken his life, but he always had a smile on his face for everyone. He will be greatly missed by his family and friends.

He is survived by his loving wife of fifty-five years, Susan, a son, Christopher (Cindy) De Young of Jacksonville, FL, a daughter, Tina (Jeremy) Bowers of Minooka, IL, grandfather or “Papa” of, Will, Cooper and Jonathan Bowers, two brothers-in-law, Michael Walter and Patrick “PJ” Skoglund, two nieces, Kristin Michelle Skoglund and Dawn Corbett, nephew, Michael Corbett, nephew and godson, Paul Walter Skoglund, a cousin, Tim Kwasniewski.

He was preceded in death by his parents, a sister, Paulette Munson, and his mother and father-in-law, Walter and Lorraine Skoglund, a brother-in-law, Raymond Skoglund, and a nephew, Jimmy Corbett.

The family wishes to extend a special thank you to Dr. Richard Farrell and the staff of Hospice of Dubuque and Midwest Medical Center. Your care and compassion will never be forgotten.

Online condolences may be left at www.furlongfuneralchapel.com

Aubrey A. Grahn

Aubrey A. “Speed” Grahn, age 90, of East Dubuque, IL, completed his earthly journey on May 21, 2023, at home while surrounded by his loving family.  To honor Aubrey’s life, a private family graveside service will be held at the Rock Island National Cemetery in Rock Island, IL, where full military honors will be accorded.  The Tri-State Cremation Center is humbly serving Aubrey’s family.

Aubrey was born on December 17, 1932, in Montello, WI, a son to Chris and Jessie (Bohr) Grahn.  He went on to honorably serve his country with the U.S. Marine Corps during the Korean War after high school and eventually made his way to the University of Wisconsin-Madison, where he not only earned his Bachelors Degree, but also met the love of his life, Mary Young.  They were united in marriage and blessed with two sons, which brought Aubrey great joy as he always strived to be the best husband and father his family could hope for.  He enjoyed life, both at work and home, and spent over 15 years with Eska Outboard Motors as the service director.  The family had lived in other locations with Aubrey’s careers prior to settling down in East Dubuque where they eventually made their permanent home among friends.  Aubrey was an avid Badger and Packers fan and he and Mary held season tickets since 1963 until only a few years ago.  He was also a pilot in his free-time and always enjoyed the opportunity to spend an afternoon soaring among the eagles whenever possible.  We will miss his kind and gentle soul walking among us and life will simply not ever be the same moving forward, but we are forever grateful for the years and the memories which the Lord has blessed us with and will find comfort within them in time.  Thank you, Aubrey, for all that you taught us along the way and may peace be yours now as we wait patiently to see you again.

Those left behind to cherish the memory of Aubrey include,

his loving wife of 63 years,
Mary Grahn, East Dubuque, IL;

his two sons,
Greg (Jill) Grahn, Twinsburg, OH,
and Ronald Grahn, East Dubuque, IL;

his grandchildren,
Jake Grahn, Matt Grahn, and Hazel Grahn;

his sister,
Cheryl (Dean) Bergland, Wild Rose, WI;

along with numerous extended family, friends, and neighbors.

Aubrey was preceded in death by his parents; and his siblings, Larry (Gloria) Grahn, Wayne (Barbara) Grahn, Reuben (Mary) Grahn, Darlene Pick, and Christen Grahn.

Aubrey’s family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Hospice of Dubuque for all of their professional and compassionate care.  Your sincere care and concern has truly helped to bring a little peace to our hearts and minds during this difficult time.

Online condolences may be shared with Aubrey’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com

Rachel A. Paysen

Rachel Ann (McCloy) Paysen of Dewitt, Iowa passed away on May 21st at 80 years old.  She was born in Maquoketa, Iowa on April 22, 1943 to William Sr and Bernice McCloy.

As a child, Rachel went to school in a one room schoolhouse.  She was one of 9 children and grew up in the Iron Hill area.

She married Delbert Paysen on October 2, 1959.  She was a mother to 5 children, and worked as a Healthcare worker for many years.

Rachel loved traveling, dancing, shopping, and enjoyed a good meal, especially Red Lobster.  Some of the places she traveled to were Hawaii, Bahamas, Cancun, Florida, Las Vegas, and Colorado.  She also loved country music.  She especially loved her flowers and spent a lot of time tending to them.

She is survived by her brother, Larry (Liz) McCloy; her five children, Gary (Janet) Paysen, Peggy (Bob) Paysen-Nightingale, Rodney (Deb) Paysen, William (Billy) Paysen, and Melissa (Mike) Paysen as well as her grandchildren – Adam, Kelsey, Kaitlin, Nicole, Clay Jr., Corey, Destiny, Spencer, Justin, Kristin, Brooke, and Tayla; several great-grandchildren; and nieces and nephews.  She was preceded in death by her parents, 7 of her brothers and sisters, and her two granddaughters April and Brooke.

A public graveside service and burial celebrating her life will be held at 11:30 A.M., Friday, May 26, 2023, at Ozark Cemetery, rural Maquoketa, Iowa.  A gathering of family and friends will be held from 4 to 7 P.M., Thursday, May 25, 2023, at Carson Celebration of Life Center in Maquoketa.  Cremation will follow the visitation.

In lieu of other expressions of sympathy, a Rachel A. Paysen memorial fund has been established.

Online condolences may be left at www.CarsonAndSon.com.

Adela E. Giesemann

Adela Elizabeth (Hueneke) Giesemann, age 94, completed her earthly journey on May 18th 2023, with family by her side.

Adela was born on the family farm in LaMotte, IA on August 19th 1928, the daughter of Alfred and Amanda (Reeg) Hueneke. After being friends since childhood, George Giesemann proposed to Adela at the stock car races in Maquoketa (quite romantic, way to go Dad.)  Apparently she said Yes and they were united in marriage on October 2, 1951, at St John’s Lutheran Church in St. Donatus.

Together they raised their children and farmed in Jackson County. She was a humble, faith filled lady and a member of St. John’s Lutheran Church all her life.  Being that she was a very talented seamstress, Adela helped create many beautiful blankets for the church and her family.  Each grandchild received their own handmade quilt.  Losing her mother at 18 months of age, she learned the value of caring for others and how to become a fantastic cook at a very young age.

Adela’s legacy of love and grace lives on through her five children, William & Sherry Giesemann,  and their children Jeremy (Kelly) Giesemann, and Emily (David) Van Wyke; James & Karen Giesemann and their children  Karissa (Jeff) Kelleher, Josh (Kristi) Giesemann, and Jordan (Megan) Giesemann; John & Mary Giesemann, and their children Andrew (Nickayla) Giesemann, Ryan (Morgan) Giesemann, and Nicholas (Hanna) Giesemann,:Ruth Giesemann & Ray Giesemann. Great grandchildren, Lillian Van Wyke. Alidia Nicholson, Kyrah Pfohl, Knox Giesemann. Logan, Hallie, Ella & Ayden Kelleher. Jamison and Kinzie Giesemann. Mac Giesemann. Greyden, Eldon & Adela Giesemann. Emerson & Jack Giesemann. And two more on the way; & a Sister-in-law, Verrena Dagitz.

She was welcomed into heaven by her husband of 59 years, George; an infant son, Thomas; her parents; a brother, Paul (Joy) Hueneke; a sister Mary (Virgil) Giesemann, Kenneth and Thelma Giesemann, Melvin Dagitz, Ken Stein.

Friends may call from 3:00 to 7:00 Monday, May 22nd at St. John’s Lutheran Church in St. Donatus. Visitation will continue after 9:00 AM Tuesday and a celebration of Adela’s life will be held at 10:30 Tuesday.  Burial to follow in church cemetery next to the man she loved.

In lieu of flowers a memorial has been established. The family would like to express gratitude for the care given to our “caretaker” to Dr. Konz and nurse Sherry, Hospice of Dubuque especially Julie, and the staff and Luther Manor. We love you, Mom.

Raymond Stanfley

Raymond “Wayne” Stanfley, 96, of Dubuque, died Sunday, May 21, 2023, at the Luther Manor in Dubuque.

Per Wayne’s wishes there will be no formal services. There will be a Celebration of Life held at a later date.

Wayne was born December 4, 1926, in Boyd, WI, the son of Raymond and Charlotte (Mott) Stanfley. On October 20, 1979, he married Judy Biba at The Little Brown Church in Nashua, Iowa.

Wayne served in the United States Army from 1950 until 1952 as a Mess Sgt. Wayne worked for some time as a farmer. He later worked as a Maintenance Supervisor at John Deere for 22 years and later in maintenance at Mt. Carmel for 20 years where he then retired. After retiring he enjoyed spending time volunteering at the YMCA Y-Camp. Wayne was a true handyman, he could fix anything.Wayne enjoyed walking outside and at the mall. He also enjoyed making popcorn at the Dubuque County Fair.Wayne was a 32nd Degree Mason and was very active in the Shrine, Grotto, Knights Templar, York Rite, Dubuque Lodge #3, and Eastern Star. For many years he served as an adult advisor to Allen Chapter of DeMolay and was a Rainbow Dad for the Bellevue-Dubuque Chapter of Rainbow Girls.

Survivors include his wife, Judy Stanfley of Dubuque; three children, Randy (Debbie) Stanfley of Lancaster, WI; Rhonda (John) Dean of Escondido, CA; and Terin (Damian) Limoges of Clive, IA; three grandchildren, Dillon Dean and Derek (Julie) Dean, and Payten Limoges; two great-grandchildren, Ellie and Riley Dean; brother, Jerry Stanfley of Lancaster, WI; sister, Doris (Milt) Keeney of Hudson, WI; two sisters-in-law, Julie (Bill) Chitwood of Boscobel, WI and Patsy McKenzie of Madison, WI; and nieces and nephews, Chuck, Chris, Cathy, Cindy, Vernon, Jeff, Melissa, Jessica, and Molly.

He was preceded in death by his parents; mother of Randy and Rhonda, Shirley Stanfley; brother, Lyle (Doris) Stanfley; three sisters in infancy, Margie, Joyce, and Donna; and two nephews, Steve Stanfley and Dave Keeney.

The family would like to extend a special Thank You to Martha and Roger Driscoll, neighbors, Dick and Sharon, Hospice of Dubuque, and the staff at Luther Manor for all of their compassionate care.

Memorials may be made to the Kaaba Shriners, 511 Veterans Memorial Pkwy, Davenport, IA 52807.

Hoffmann Schneider & Kitchen Funeral Home and Crematory is in care of the arrangements.

Condolences can be sent to the family by visiting Raymond’s obituary at www.hskfhcares.com.

William J. Busch

William J. “Bill” Busch, 76, of Dickeyville, Wisconsin, died Saturday, May 20, 2023, at home.  Private family services will be held according to Bill’s wishes. Casey-McNett Funeral Home & Cremation Services of Cuba City is assisting the family.

Bill was born on March 15, 1947, in Sinsinawa, Wisconsin, the son of George and Lucille (DeMuth) Busch.  Bill married Jolene “Cookie” Kunkel on April 23, 1966, at Immaculate Conception Church in Kieler, Wisconsin, and recently celebrated their 57th wedding anniversary.

Bill worked at John Deere Dubuque Tractor Works for 43 1/2 years where he made lifelong friends.  He was a member of UAW Local 94 since 1965.  Bill enjoyed golf, the Packers, the Brewers and special times fishing in Minnesota.  His favorite time was when his family was all together.  He loved his children and grandchildren.

Survivors include his wife, Jolene “Cookie”; their children, Amy (Pat) Schaal, and Jeff (Roxy) Busch, both of Dickeyville, WI, Ben (Kirk Nichols) Busch, Blue Mounds, WI and Billy (Katie) Busch, Appleton, WI; eight grandchildren, Kayla, Courtney and Will Busch, Nicholas and Kate Schaal, and Carson, Sophia and Eva Busch; his brothers, Merlin (Janilda) Busch and  Danny (Joyce) Busch, both of Dickeyville, WI and Dale (Deb) Busch, Hazel Green, WI; his sisters, Doris (Earl) Jansen and Janet (Tom) Timmerman, both of Cuba City, WI, Mary Kay (Gary) McCartney and Jean (Bob) Vogt, both of Hazel Green, WI, Karen (Ron) Larson, East Dubuque, IL and Patty (Brett) Clark, Fennimore, WI; and his in-laws, Marlene  (George) Schuster, Kieler, WI, Patsy (Bob) Tigges, Key West, IA, Judy (Don) Takes, Sinsinawa, WI, Ed (Pat) Kunkel, Cuba City, WI; Randy (Kim) Kunkel, Dubuque, IA; and Jean Kunkel and Harry Kruser, both of Kieler, WI.

He was preceded in death by his parents, George and Lucille (DeMuth) Busch; parents-in-law, Martin and Mildred (Lenstra) Kunkel; a granddaughter, Jolene Schaal; a sister, Sr. Ann Busch; and his in-laws, Earl and Nancy Kunkel, Roger Budden, Martin “Buster” Kunkel, JoAnne Kruser and Norma Kunkel.

 In lieu of flowers, a William J. “Bill” Busch Memorial fund has been established.  Memorials may be sent to the funeral home at 123 N. Jackson St., Cuba City, WI  53807.

The family would like to thank Dr. Zach Droeszler and Agrace Hospice.

Online condolences for the family may be left at www.caseymcnett.com.

Louis J. Weis

Louis J. Weis, 77, of Bellevue, passed away on Friday, May 19, 2023 at Mill Valley Care Center.

Memorial Visitation will be 5:00 pm – 7:00 pm, Friday, June 2, 2023 at Hachmann-Mier Funeral Home & Cremation Service.  Bellevue American Legion Post #273 will conduct Military Honors at 4:30 pm prior to visitation at the funeral home.

Local arrangements entrusted at Hachmann-Mier Funeral Home & Cremation Service in Bellevue.

Louis was born August 8, 1945, the son of Joseph A. and Anna Marie (Greuel) Weis.  He earned a degree in drafting at Scott Community College.  Louis served his country in the US Air Force during Vietnam 1965-1969. While he was station in Albuquerque, New Mexico, he met and married Darlene Dunn on September 13, 1969.  Louis grew up helping at his parents store and also, helping his cousins on the farm.  He worked at John Deere Works Dubuque until retiring.  Louis also taught CNC machine operating.  He learned to create stained glass, iron works with many projects  throughout Bellevue, including the entrance gates at the Masonic Hall.  Louis also enjoyed quilting at St. Joseph’s Church and also creating quilts of Valor, wood working, fabrication, and metal and welding work.  He always like to stay busy with many projects and hobbies.

Survivors include his wife, Darlene; children, Donald Weis and Patsy (John) Greifzu; grandchildren, Anna Pitts, Evan Pitts, Johnathan Greifzu, Maddie Greifzu, Janet Greifzu, Andy Duschen, Nathan Duschen, and Nicolle Duschen.

A memorial fund has been established in Louis’s memory.

Online condolences maybe expressed to the family at www.hachmannfuneralhome.com

Edward Marinko

Edward Marinko, age 97, of Dubuque, passed away at 8:13 p.m., on Tuesday, May 16, 2023, at MercyOne Dubuque of natural causes.  To honor Ed’s life, family and friends may visit from 11:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m., on Thursday, May 25, 2023, at Sunset Funeral Home and Cremation Center, 710 N. Neil Street, Champaign, Illinois.  Burial will be in Mt. Hope Cemetery/Roselawn, 611 E. Pennsylvania, Champaign, Illinois.

Ed was born on April 3, 1926, in Phillips, Wisconsin, son of Paul and Anna (Fedorko) Marinko.

He attended Phillips High School and earned his GED after he was discharged from the military.  At age 17, Ed joined the U.S. Navy where he served as a Desalination Engineer during WWII in the South Pacific.  After the war, he married Emily Rose Fasko in Phillips, WI, and after they had their 1st child they loaded up the Model T and moved to Chicago.  After 27 years they went their separate ways.  Ed was a plasterer by trade and worked all over the Chicago area.  He would later marry Jane (Eliot) Cartland in July of 1983, and they were together for 21 years until she passed away on December 10, 2004.  In his free time, Ed loved a good game of cards, a nice cigar and eating Cheetos.  In his younger years, he enjoyed hunting, fishing, golfing and bowling.  Ed will be greatly missed.

Those left to cherish Ed’s memory include

his children,
Judith A. (Joseph) Valentino, New Lennox, IL,
Edward R. (Carol) Marinko, Dubuque, IA
and Millicent (Ross) Olsby, Fishers, IN;

5 step-children,
Jack, Mary, Doug, Jennifer and Susan;

his grandchildren,
Carole Valentino, Ed (Holly) Valentino, Nicole (Jeff) Eggener, Deanna Valentino, Kelly (Michael) Halapua, Michael S. Marinko, Jessica Jackson and Megan (Chris Jarvis) Jackson;

his great-grandchildren,
Austin and Mitchell Hyatt, Gage and Christina Valentino, Piper and Reece Eggener, Mila and Leila Halapua, Marley Duvall, and Archer and Evren Jarvis;

and numerous nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews.

Ed was preceded in death by his parents; his wife, Jane (Eliot) Marinko; a grandson, Edward J. Marinko; and his siblings, Verona, Susan, Julia, Anna, John, George, Paul, Frank, Mike and 4 in infancy, Anna, Mary, Anna and Andy.

The family will thankfully receive your support through greeting cards and memorials in Ed’s memory which may be mailed to Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, Dubuque, Iowa 52001, Attn. Ed Marinko Family.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.behrfuneralhome.com

Judith A. Niemer

Judith A. “Judy” (Kerper) Niemer, age 83, of Dubuque, passed away at 8:13 a.m., on Friday, May 19, 2023, at Stonehill Health Center.  To honor Judy’s life, family and friends may visit from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m., on Tuesday, May 23, 2023, at Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, where there will be a parish scripture wake service held at 6:45 p.m.  Funeral services will be held at 11:00 a.m., on Wednesday, May 24, 2023, at the Church of the Nativity, with Rev. Andrew J. Upah officiating.  Entombment will be in the Mt. Calvary Cemetery Mausoleum.

Judy was born on November 1, 1939, in Dubuque, Iowa, daughter of John and Ellen (Tschudi) Kerper.

Judy was a life long Dubuquer who graduated from Visitation Academy.  She met the love of her life, Maurice “Maury” Niemer, at a Catholic singles event.  Maury walked up to her saying that he had heard she was a pretty good bowler and the challenge was on.  The couple went on to marry on June 13, 1964, at St. Patrick’s Church.  They were blessed with 57 wonderful years of marriage, 5 sons and several years of bowling together.  Sadly, Judy lost her beloved Maury on February 16, 2022.  She was a devoted wife and mom who volunteered her time in the learning center at Nativity School while the boys were attending school there.  After the boys were raised, she went to work as a bookkeeper at Borley Advertising and the Visitation Convent for 30 years.  Her faith was always an important aspect of her life and was evidenced by her long time membership with the Church of the Nativity, where she was head of the Eucharistic Ministers for several years.  In her free time she had many interests and hobbies.  Judy was quite the bowler and bowled in several leagues including mixed league with Maury.  She liked camping, fishing and baking cookies, especially Christmas cookies.  Judy was an incredible hostess.  Her home was always the gathering place in the neighborhood when the boys were young, and she was always happy when their friends joined them.  She loved having company and especially enjoyed visits from the grandchildren and her “grandpuppy”, Annie.  Every year Judy made sure she signed up for the annual pass at the Mississippi River Museum so that she could take all of the grandchildren to visit.  We will miss our sweet, wonderful mom and grandma tremendously, but know that she is now resting peacefully, reunited with her beloved Maury.

Those left to cherish Judy’s memory include

her 4 sons,
Kevin (Ellen) Niemer, Dubuque, IA,
Patrick (Amy) Niemer, Asbury, IA,
Gene (Kristi) Niemer, Manchester, IA
and Doug (Jenny) Niemer, Victoria, MN;

her grandchildren,
Ben, Stephanie, Megan, Kalee, Colin, Jeff, Noah, Sophia, Emma and John;

and numerous nieces and nephews.

Judy was preceded in death by her parents; her loving husband, Maury Niemer; a son, Timothy Niemer; a sister, Mary “Jill” (Thomas) Thilmany; and a brother John (Gloria) Kerper.

Judy’s family would like to thank all of the nurses and staff of UnityPoint Health Finley Hospital, Stonehill and Hospice of Dubuque for the outstanding care they have provided for Judy.

The family will thankfully receive your support through greeting cards and memorials in Judy’s memory which may be mailed to Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, Dubuque, Iowa 52001, Attn. Judy Niemer Family.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.behrfuneralhome.com

William J. Fluhr

William J. “Bill” Fluhr, 69, of East Dubuque, IL, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, May 18, 2023, at home.

Family and friends may call from 5:00 – 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, May 23rd at the Miller Funeral Home in East Dubuque.

Graveside services are 1:30 p.m. on Wednesday, May 24th at the East Dubuque Cemetery, with Deacon Mike Timmerman officiating.

Bill was born on August 11, 1953, in Dubuque, IA, the son of Robert P. and Betty Mae (Tropf) Fluhr.  He attended East Dubuque High School.

Bill was formerly employed at Ferrell Gas in East Dubuque, and later worked for the City of Dubuque Park’s Dept., from where he retired.

He enjoyed boating, fishing, his Harley motorcycle and Thursday evening outings with Grandma Betty, frequenting the Brass Ring and the 3100 Club, plus the Casino.

Surviving are two sons, Josh (Nicolle) Fluhr and Ryan (Terra) Fluhr, both of East Dubuque; two grandchildren, Brock and Madyson; a brother, Gary Fluhr, a sister, Lisa (Todd Berggren) Williams; and a niece, Erin (Josh) Timmerman.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Bob and Betty.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.millerfhed.com©

Rosemarie A. Steppan

Rosemarie A “Rea” Steppan, age 84, of Dubuque, IA, completed her earthly journey on May 17, 2023, at Stonehill Care Center while surrounded by her loving family.  To honor Rosemarie’s life, a Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, July 15, 2023, at 10:30 a.m., at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, 241 Peosta Street, Peosta, IA.  Family and friends are invited to join in fellowship for two hours prior to the service at the church.  Burial will be in the church cemetery in Centralia.  The service will be livestreamed on the Parish’s Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/stelizabethpastorate for those who cannot physically attend. The Tri-State Cremation Center is humbly serving Rosemarie’s family.

Rea was born on October 15, 1938, in LaPorte, IN, a daughter to William Henry Sr. and Emily (Neve) Westney.  She grew up with dreams of nurturing and adoring a family of her own one day and prepared herself to be the best wife and mother she could be for them.  In time, her family had moved to the Chicago area and she completed her high school education there before continuing on and earning her Bachelor’s Degree at Northeastern Illinois University.  Rea finally found her soul-mate, Edmund “Bud” Steppan, and the predestined couple was united in marriage on February 17, 1962.  They spent 61 wonderful years together raising their family, sharing in life’s adventures, and leaving behind a legacy of love and commitment that became even more visible as Rea was reunited with Bud only 21 days after he was called home to the Lord.  Two hearts had truly become one and the example they set will live on vividly within the hearts and minds of all who knew and loved them.  She spent over 25 years of her working career with Bodine Electric, both in Chicago and Peosta.  After retirement, she found a few other ways to spend her time helping others and keeping herself busy.  Rosemarie always enjoyed the outdoor activities whenever possible and if a round of golf, or a friendly softball game would make it into her day, then she was quite content to call that a successful day.  She also enjoyed bowling with family and friends as well and was a faithful member, lector, and eucharistic minister at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, as well as a longtime member of St. Benedict’s Church in Chicago.  Rea was the finest example of love and light we could hope to see in our daily walks.  Her easy-going demeanor, coupled with her devotion to all that was good in this world, left no room for anything but love and acceptance to flow forth from her in words, thoughts and actions alike.  The world is surely a lesser place today without the essence of Rosemarie walking among us.  Mom and Dad leave behind many broken hearts today, but we are thankfully able to find peace in the fact that they are back together once again, and now for all of eternity and in a state of perfection.  Thank you, Rea, for being exactly the kind of woman the Lord made you to be and may He bless you abundantly as you hear the words you’ve been waiting patiently for; well done good and faithful servant, well done!

Those left behind to cherish the memory of Rosemarie include,

her four sons,
Ed (Anne) Steppan, III, St. Anne, IL,
Tim (Angela) Steppan, Hartford, S.D.,
Bob Steppan, Bolingbrook, IL,
and Bill (Jenny) Steppan, Dubuque, IA;

her five grandchildren,
Tim (Rachel) Steppan, Kevin (Hannah) Steppan, Mark Steppan, Amber (Mark) Dye, and Vivian Steppan;

her three great-grandchildren,
Freya Steppan, Greta Steppan, and Isabella Dye;

her brother-in-law,
Robert Ladlaw, North Carolina;

along with numerous extended family, friends, and neighbors.

Rea was preceded in death by her parents; her loving husband of 61 years, Bud Steppan; and her siblings, William Henry Westney Jr., Robert (Lynne) Westney, Delphine (Ben) Ladenthin, Fern (Warren) Johnson, and Marilyn Ladlaw.

Rosemarie’s family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Stonehill and Hospice of Dubuque for all their professional and compassionate care of Rea and her family.  Losing both Mom and Dad within 21 days of each other is as difficult a reality as we could ever have to face in this life, but being surrounded by such a wonderful staff and feeling your sincere support through each day has truly made these beyond difficult days just a little more bearable.  We are beyond grateful for each and every one of you and may the Lord bless you all for your kindnesses.

Online condolences may be shared with Rosemarie’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com

Earl Rettenmeier

Earl Rettenmeier, 92, of Dubuque died Thursday, May 18, 2023, at home surrounded by family.

A prayer service will be held at 3:00 pm Tuesday, May 23, 2023 at Hoffmann Schneider & Kitchen Funeral Home & Crematory followed by visitation until 7:00 pm.

The Mass of Christian Burial for Earl will be 10:30 am Wednesday, May 24, 2023, at Holy Spirit Parish – Sacred Heart Catholic Church with Father Steven Garner as the Celebrant.  Burial will be in Mount Calvary Cemetery in Dubuque.  Full military honors will be rendered by the American Legion Post #6.

Earl was born on January 22, 1931 on the family farm in Lower Balltown, Iowa, the son of Fred and Alvina (Meyer) Rettenmeier. He married Marlene Lex on August 16, 1958.

Earl went to grade school in Balltown, and joined the Navy in 1953, serving until 1956. He was able to participate in the Honor Flight with his brother, Howard, in 2012. He worked 30 years at John Deere Dubuque Works, retiring in 1986. He was an active member of Local 94, serving as a union steward. As he prepared for his retirement, he became an inaugural kennel owner with his friend Joe Lent at Dubuque Greyhound Park. Earl was an active member at Sacred Heart (now Holy Spirit) Parish, having worked on various committees including Finance, Fall Festival, and Renovation. He was a member of the American Legion Post #6.  He was also on the Grounds Committees for the Dubuque Arboretum.

Earl was an avid baseball fan, following the Brooklyn / L.A. Dodgers, playing and managing for the Balltown semi-pro team and coaching the Bulldogs/Bears Independent League baseball team. He was inducted into the Hall of Fame for Dubuque County Baseball (2011) and Independent League (1986.)

Earl was a family man. In addition to coaching his sons in baseball, he loved snowmobiling in the Winter, and boating in the Summer. He was also a lifelong fan of the Wahlert Golden Eagles, attending most football, basketball and baseball games over the past 50 years. He was a friend to many, and will forever be remembered for his infectious cackling laugh.

Survivors include his wife of 64 years, Marlene, of Dubuque; children, Ruth Gallo, Nancy (CJ) Pape, Joe (Lisa) Rettenmeier, and John (Carrie Schmid) Rettenmeier, all of Dubuque; six grandchildren and four great-grandchildren; brother, Howard Rettenmeier of Dyersville ; sisters, Elaine Link and Mert Habel, both of Dubuque; and brothers- and sisters-in-law, Allen and Mary Ann Lex, Bob and Shirley Lex, and Carol and Janice Lex.

He was preceded by his parents, sister, Janette Slattery, sisters-in-law, Shirley Rettenmeier, Rita Brimeyer; brothers-in-law, Gus Slattery, Jim Habel, Lyle Link, Jim Lex, Lavern Lex and Willie Brimeyer.

The family would like to extend a special thank you to Carol and Amy from Home Instead, Stonehill Care Center, Dr. Salas, and Dr. Horchek, Hospice of Dubuque nurse Julie and his favorite nurse, daughter Ruth.

In lieu of flowers, memorials have been established to Hospice of Dubuque and Holy Spirit Parish .

A photo tribute can be viewed and condolences sent to the family by visiting Earl’s obituary at www.hskfhcares.com.

Kay F. Coyle

Kay F. Coyle, age 87, of Dubuque, IA, passed away on May 16, 2023 surrounded by her loving family.

She was born on January 7, 1936, in Peoria, IL, to Wilbur and Elna (Chenoweth) Hendricks. After graduating from Woodruff High School with the Class of 1954, she worked as an operator at Bell Telephone. In 1956 she married Robert E. “Bob” Coyle in El Paso, IL. They then resided in Peoria where they welcomed their three children. In 1965 the family relocated to Dubuque, and in 1975 she returned to work for Northwestern Bell. Kay and Bob celebrated 47 years of marriage before his passing in 2003.

Kay’s passion, and true gift in life, was her devotion to family. During her children’s school years, Kay was active in P.T.A., Cub Scouts and the various other activities they were involved in. Once grandchildren arrived, she frequently traveled to attend their sporting events, recitals, and birthdays. She enjoyed spoiling them with an endless supply of McDonald’s and Dairy Queen gift cards.

Kay was a faithful member of Immanuel U.C.C., serving on the bell choir and as a volunteer. She was also a member of the Democratic Party and served on the election board. In her spare time, Kay was an avid reader, a talented seamstress, and enjoyed knitting and crocheting.

Kay was a fantastic mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin, and friend. She touched the lives of so many people. She will truly be missed and will never be forgotten.

Kay was preceded in death by her parents, Wilbur and Elna; her husband, Bob; her brother, Larry Hendricks, and her sister, Janet (Damon) Deal. She is survived by her three children, Linda (Jon) Burshiem, Dianna (Al) Stumph, and Robert E. (Carrie) Coyle II; eight grandchildren, Philip Bleile, Al (Sarah) Stumph, Eric Burshiem, Robert (Christie) Coyle, Jesse (Brittany) Stumph, Sabrina (John) Dolohanty, Katherine (John Ross) Langdon, and Clark Coyle; twelve great-grandchildren, Isaac, Jordin, Taylor, Everett, John Michael, Kal, Kade, Jalen, Rose, Kolton, Hazel, and Helena; her sister, Joyce “Lynn” (Tony) Adams; her sister-in-law, Judy Hendricks, and brother-in-law, Ed (Judy) Coyle.

Arrangements are being made by Tri-State Cremation Center and a Celebration of Life is currently being planned—details will be available on their website in the coming weeks. Online condolences may be shared with Kay’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com.

Karen A. Leisen

Karen Ann (Heaser) Leisen, a long-time resident of Dubuque, IA, passed away peacefully at the age of 80 years due to ALS-related complications on Wednesday, May 17, 2023.

Visitation will be held 3:00 -7:00 p.m, Wednesday, May 24, 2023, at Hoffmann Schneider & Kitchen Funeral Home. The Mass of Christian Burial for Karen will be held at 10:30 a.m., Thursday, May 25, 2023, at Church of the Nativity. Burial will follow at Linwood Cemetery.

Karen was born April 7, 1943, in Winona, MN, the daughter of Ralph Victor and Elizabeth “Betty” Ellen (Mogren) Heaser. In 1960, she began pursuing a liberal arts degree at University of Minnesota, Twin Cities. On December 4, 1965, she married Vincent “Vince” Mathew Leisen of Plainview, MN, at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Minneiska, MN. In 1967, the couple moved to Dubuque, IA, and started their family, which grew to number six daughters and three sons.

Karen dedicated a great deal of time to the Church of the Nativity, filling many parish roles over the past five decades: Archdiocese of Dubuque pastoral associate, parish visitor, cantor, sacristan, eucharistic minister, choir member and was involved in a multitude of church-based organizations and committees. She especially enjoyed her position as parish visitor-spending time with parishioners who were homebound or in nursing homes, keeping them connected to their church community, and serving them communion.

Known to be first to raise her hand when Dubuque community organizations needed help, Karen volunteered her time as 4-H leader, Boy Scout leader, Dubuque Symphony Orchestra greeter, Shalom Spirituality Center volunteer, Dubuque Youth Hockey Organization registrar and treasurer, and much more. An avid Dubuque Fighting Saints fan, Karen often sang the national anthem for games held at Five Flags Center, and opened her home to the team, housing multiple players over the years. She ran a home-based child daycare for nearly 40 years. She was co-owner and bookkeeper for Dubuque Appliance Center, the business co-founded by her husband, Vince.

In 1984, Karen enrolled at Loras College in Dubuque to finish earning the degree she started working towards 24 years earlier in Minnesota. In May 2019, then-76-year-old Karen became the oldest graduating student in the 180-year history of Loras College, receiving her bachelor’s degree in liberal arts.

Karen is survived by her devoted husband, Vince; her nine beloved children: Jean (Norman) Bondoc of Madison, WI, Teresa Sellinger of Sparta, NJ, Steven (Tammi) Leisen of Urbandale, IA, Amy (John) Ouellette of Murfreesboro, TN, Daniel (Theresa) Leisen of Dubuque, Diana (Michael) Moroney of Dubuque, Angela (Jack) Seeley of Charlotte, NC, Molly Leisen of Dubuque, and Anthony (Morgan) Leisen of St. Paul, MN; her 23 cherished grandchildren: Evan, Peyton, Delaney and Haley Bondoc, Griffin, Devin and Alexandra Sellinger, Vincent Leisen, Morgan, Zachary and Samantha Ouellette, Natalie and Isabel Leisen, Brock, Connor, Nicholas and Madeline Moroney, Olivia, William, Elena and Caroline Seeley, Robert and Ethan Leisen; and her three treasured brothers: Ralph (Darlene) Heaser, Jr. of Kellogg, MN, Kenneth (Patti) Heaser of Minneiska, MN, and Michael (Donna) Heaser of Minneiska, MN.

Karen is preceded in death by her parents, Ralph and Betty Heaser, and her father- and mother-in-law, Joseph and Julia Leisen.

A special thank you to the wonderful staff members of Bethany Home and Hospice of Dubuque for their incredible dedication and care.

In lieu of flowers, a memorial has been established.

Hoffmann Schneider & Kitchen Funeral Home and Crematory is in care of the arrangements.

Virgil J. Roeder

Virgil J. Roeder, age 90, passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, May 14th, in Tucson, AZ, following a 17-month long courageous battle with Acute Myeloid Leukemia.

Services will be held at 10 am June 3rd, at the Marana Mortuary officiated by Father Jim Shea. Military honors will be presented by the Davis Monthan AFB Honor Guard. Interment will be at the Marana Veterans Memorial Cemetery at a later date.

The youngest son of Gerald and Myrtle (Peterman) Roeder, Virgil was born on September 5th, 1932, on the family farm in Jackson County, Iowa. His family moved from the farm to Spragueville, Iowa, where Virgil grew up helping his family run the Roeder General Store. He had many fond memories from this chapter in his life that provided the basis for many of the great stories he told later in life. Following graduation from Preston, Iowa High School in 1951, he enlisted in the USAF during the Korean War. He served honorably from 1953 – 1957. On August 4th, 1953, Virgil married the love of his life, June (Cook) Roeder, the start of a lifelong love affair filled with joy and happiness. Together they had 5 children: Nancy, Mark, Susan, Scott and Troy.

Following his discharge from the USAF, he took full advantage of VA education benefits to enroll in the Business Administration Program, College of Business at the University of Iowa, completing his BBA degree in three years.

Virgil worked at the John Deere Dubuque Tractor Works from 1961 until his retirement in 1986. During much of that time he served as the Payroll Supervisor, a position he thoroughly enjoyed.  Never one to sit still, Virgil returned to the workforce from 1991 – 2001, working in Patient Accounts at the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics.

Seeking a warmer climate, Virgil and June moved to Tucson, AZ, but continued annual summer trips to Iowa in their motor home to visit family and friends. Always wanting to keep busy, Virgil started his third career in Tucson, working at Safeway Grocery Store from 2007-2020 where he made many new friends. He reluctantly retired for good at the age of 88 and only because of the pandemic.

Throughout their lives together, Virgil and June enjoyed traveling and attending sporting events. They traveled throughout the United States, toured Europe and Hawaii, and took their extended family on five Caribbean cruises.  But their greatest pleasure was attending University of Iowa sporting events, including the 1991 Rose Bowl.  They supported Women’s Basketball at the University of Iowa and followed daughter Susan, attending her home and away games as she played on the team during the early years of the Iowa Women’s Basketball program. In addition, Virgil loved tinkering with cars, including a ’67 Mustang, two MGs, and two Triumph TR6s. His last toy was a 2000 Lexus convertible in mint condition to this day.

Virgil was a member of the John Deere Supervisors Club and a Lifetime Member of the University of Iowa Alumni Association.  Virgil was also a member of the Tucson Hawkeye Club where he and June were presented with the Hawkeye Spirit Award in 2021.

Virgil was preceded in death by his parents, Gerald and Myrtle Roeder; his brother Dr. Donald Roeder; and his sister, Marjorie Van Dorn.

Virgil is survived by June, his loving wife of 69 years, their children: Nancy (Dr. Tom Plamondon); Mark (Lynann); Susan; Scott (Kristine); and Dr. Troy (Stacy Hurry); his grandchildren: Jonathan, Kathleen, Jacob, Kaitlyn, Tirfie, and Dr. Jaclyn; numerous nieces and nephews; and very close family friends, Sheryl Nosbish and Jerry Nelson.

Virgil was a loving husband and father, offering unlimited support and encouragement to his children and grandchildren. Possessing a positive, and “can-do” attitude, along with an accepting personality, he left a lasting impression on so many people, making lifelong friends, and ultimately met his cancer head on, without complaint to the end. Virgil was a “people person”, always striving to put others before himself. In addition, he was as quick with a story as he was with lending a helping hand. In short, Virgil loved life and it showed. He will be greatly missed by all who were fortunate enough to have met him. In good times and in bad times dad always reminded us, “It’s all part of the fun!”

June and the family want to express their gratitude to the entire staff at the University of Arizona Cancer Center for their world-class care. They also wish to thank the crew from Station 34 at Northwest Fire Department and the Marana Police Department for their compassionate response.

In lieu of flowers, please consider sending memorials to the State University of Iowa Foundation (designate Ophthalmology & Visual Services) or the University of Arizona Cancer Research Center.