Obituaries Archive

John W. Tilton

John W. “Jac” Tilton, 77, passed February 18, 2024, at home at peace after an eight-month illness.

Born December 28, 1946, in central Illinois, Jac moved to the tri-state area in 1969 to teach art in the Galena Public Schools. Known to this day as “Mr. T”, his classes combined creativity with humor and fun. Jac taught for 12 years before transferring his creative skills to Dubuque-area publishing and communication businesses for over 35 years. He retired from the University of Dubuque.

Despite his professional responsibilities, Jac never lost sight of his twin passions: fine art and music. In 2017 he achieved his life-long dream of becoming a full-time watercolorist. His paintings were featured in both national and international watercolor exhibits, adorned the walls of many Midwestern galleries and were published in compilations of the best American painters. Jac played most anything with strings, participating in a number of bluegrass and old-time music groups.

Jac was known for his quick wit, funny stories, eclectic reading habits, and an encyclopedia-like interest in a wide range of topics, from foreign languages and politics to nature and Taoism. He also enjoyed traveling, kayaking and camping.

Jac had a fiercely private and independent streak yet was incredibly loyal to his loved ones. He is survived by his wife of 41 years, Chris Chapin-Tilton; Doug Tilton, of Dubuque, his children and grandson; Shannon (Dee) Wulf, of East Troy, WI, their children and grandchildren; Aaron Tilton of Berlin, Germany; Drake (Ashley) Tilton of Dubuque; Yvonne Scott, of Carbondale, IL, her children and grandchildren; Jim (Trish) Tognacci, of Fountain Hills, AZ; and Marilyn Tognacci of Chandler, AZ, her children and grandchildren. He was predeceased by his parents and Louis Tognacci.

To his loved ones, Jac left two final quotes: one from Pete Seeger and the other a “Jac original.”  From Pete: “Life is like a song. Just about the time you have it figured out, it’s over.” From Jac: “Keep practicing.” And he lived by those words to the end.

A memorial art show will be held in Jac’s honor at the University of Dubuque on Friday, Sept. 27. A private Celebration of Life will be held at the Galena Center for Arts on Sat., Sept. 28, following a committal of his ashes at Casper Creek Natural Cemetery.

Memorials may be sent directly to the Galena Center for the Arts and the University of Dubuque to support arts education projects in Jac’s memory. In addition, Jac and Chris have developed a line of merchandise featuring Jac’s artwork, which will be available in select area locations with all profit contributed to the two memorial funds. 

The Tilton family would like to recognize Dr. Mark Hermann and staff at the Integrated Cancer Center and the Hospice of Dubuque staff for their outstanding and truly compassionate care of Jac.

Leonard Funeral Home & Crematory, Dubuque, Iowa assisted the family. Online condolences may be left at www.leonardfuneralhome.com

Sr. Mary Lois Carey, OP

Sister Mary Lois Carey, OP, died March 19, 2024, at St. Dominic Villa, Hazel Green, Wis. Her remembering and funeral Mass will be held Tuesday, March 26, at 1:30 p.m. in St. Dominic Villa Chapel. Interment will follow at St. Clara Cemetery, Sinsinawa, Wis. Miller Funeral Home, East Dubuque, Ill., is handling arrangements.

Sister Mary Lois was born July 2, 1931, to Thomas and Elizabeth (Mahon) Carey in Wausau, Wis. She made profession as a Dominican Sister of Sinsinawa in 1951 and was given the religious name of Sister Thomaselle. She received a BA in history from Rosary College, River Forest, Ill.; an MA in education and elementary administration from Loras College, Dubuque, Iowa; and an MA in applied theology from the School of Applied Theology, Berkley, Calif.

Sister Mary Lois’ ministry was dedicated to education and spiritual care. In Illinois, she was a teacher at St. Thomas the Apostle School and St. Sabina School, both Chicago. She was principal at Visitation School, Kewanee, and St. Thomas School, Peoria Heights. She also served as principal at Our Lady of Refuge School, Bronx, N.Y. In Iowa, she taught at St. Joseph School, Dubuque. In Wisconsin, she taught at Queen of Peace School, Madison. In Oakland, Calif., she taught at Bishop O’Dowd High School, was administrator and spiritual director at Spiritual Growth Center, and served as support staff at the School of Applied Theology. Sister Mary Lois was also a volunteer at the Dominican Ashram, Adrian, Mich., and assistant to the prioress at the Dominican Center, Spokane, Wash.

Sister Mary Lois was preceded in death by her parents; two brothers, Robert and John; and two sisters, Joyce Simon and Sinsinawa Dominican Sister Cecilia Carey, OP. She is survived by a brother, Mark, and her Dominican Sisters. Memorials may be made to the Dominican Sisters of Sinsinawa, 585 County Road Z, Sinsinawa, Wis., or given online at www.sinsinawa.org/donate.

Chester T. McGrath

Chester (Chet) Thomas McGrath of Cedar Rapids, IA, formerly of Dubuque, IA, passed away at the age of 95 on Monday evening, March 18, 2024, at Harmony Cedar Rapids.

Behr’s Funeral Home in Dubuque, IA, is assisting the family with arrangements. Chet’s daughters will greet friends and family at Behr’s (1491 Main St., Dubuque, IA) on Friday, March 22, between 9:30 and 11:00 am. A private graveside service and burial will follow at St. Clement Cemetery.

Chester was born on June 25, 1928, in Latnerville, IA, to Peter and Anna (Lucas) McGrath. He was raised in Graf, IA, and helped support his family after his father passed away by working a paper route as a young boy, and then going to work on the railroads at age 14. At age 16, Chester enlisted in the U.S. Navy ‘as a 17-year old’ to join the war effort towards the end of WWII. He proudly served his country for 4 years. Chester married Eunice Manemann on July 30, 1955. They had five children together and shared 7 grandchildren and 9 great-grandchildren. They later divorced, but remained friends throughout their lives.

Chester had a 30-year career at the Dubuque Packing Company. After retiring, he enjoyed simple pleasures like lunches at Eagle Point Park with his daughters and grandchildren, solving world problems with other retirees during their morning coffees at the downtown Dubuque McDonalds, and watching the bald eagles soar over the Dubuque Lock & Dam.  He especially enjoyed flashy cars and listening to the Cubs baseball games on the radio.

Chester eventually made his way to Cedar Rapids, IA, to be closer to his daughters. He found an

extended family at Evergreen Estates in Cedar Rapids, who provided compassionate care and assistance

during the last 16 years of his independent life. Harmony of Cedar Rapids, Mercy Medical Center, and

the VA Clinic and Hospital provided much appreciated end-of-life care for Chester.

Surviving are three daughters Tami (Allan) Pierson of Cedar Rapids, IA, Tania (George) Aboud of Cedar Rapids, IA, and Marymichael McGrath of Austin, TX. Also surviving is Chester’s sister, Coletta Schultz, of Dubuque, IA. Grandchildren include Christopher McGrath, Ashley Pierson-Patten, Jordan Hobbs, Jenna Spence, Lauren Aboud, Zackary Aboud, and Madison McGrath, plus great-grandchildren Carter, Kylie, Lincoln, Alia, Alaina, Violet, Jasper, Regan, and Charly.

Chester was preceded in death by his two sons, Troy McGrath and Paris McGrath (Capulet), both of Cedar Rapids, and his former wife Eunice McGrath of Cedar Rapids. Siblings (and spouses) Vernon (Eleanor) McGrath, Anna Mae (Albert) Hoist, Ralph (Bernadine) McGrath, and Merlin ‘Bud’ Schultz, all of Dubuque, also passed before Chester.

Thank you to all who knew, loved, and cared for Chester. Memorials may be made to the charity of your choice.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.behrfuneralhome.com

Karen E. Wasson

Karen Elaine Wasson, 85, of Galena, IL, passed away Monday, March 18, 2024, at the Midwest Senior Care Center.

A funeral service will be held at noon, Tuesday, March 26, 2024, at the Furlong Funeral Chapel in Galena, where friends may call after 11:00 AM until the time of service. A parish rosary will be recited at 10:30 AM. The burial will be in Greenwood Cemetery, Galena.

She was born March 27, 1938, in New Diggings, WI, the daughter of George and Lucy (Carter) Symons. Karen attended school in New Diggings and Benton, WI. She married Bert Wasson in East Dubuque, IL, on February 23, 1957, and he preceded her in death on May 18, 1989.

Karen was employed for over 30 years at the Palace Motel until she retired in 1989. Karen was an avid animal lover; she enjoyed her Pepsi, listening to the scanner, and following the news. She was a dedicated wife and mother and was exceptionally devoted to her family.

She is survived by her son, Kevin of Jacksonville, FL, a sister-in-law, Catherine Symons, and her many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, a son, Randy, a daughter, Lisa, three brothers, Gene, Phillip, and Bob, two sisters, Dora and Clarice, and a sister-in-law, Lillian Symons-Knox.

The family would like to thank Midwest Senior Care Center, Dr. Koenigs, Jordan Frank, Terry and Elly Renner, Rhonda Wasson, and an extra special thank you to Glenn and Lynn Harris. Your care and compassion during this difficult time will never be forgotten. Memorials may be given to your favorite charities in memory of Karen.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.furlongfuneralchapel.com

Marjorie J. Tuthill

We regretfully announce the passing of Marjorie Jane Tuthill of Dubuque, Iowa on Sunday, March 17, 2024. She was with her husband and passed away peacefully. She will be cremated and buried in Lattnerville Catholic Cemetery in Lattnerville, Iowa. There are no events planned as she did not wish to have services. Her family will celebrate her life in private. Leonard Funeral Home & Crematory, Dubuque, Iowa is assisting the family.

Marge was a strong and kind woman and our family was blessed to have her as a wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She was born on June 12, 1940 to Magdalene and Leo J. Goetzinger and grew up in Graf, Iowa. She had a green thumb, loved to draw and paint, and in her younger days she enjoyed hiking and hunting in the woods surrounding the family home in Graf.

In 1958 she married Carl Tuthill and together they went on to have 6 children. Marge was a wonderful and loving woman who gave her all to her family. We will never be able to fill the space left behind by her.

Marge was predeceased by her twin sons Scott Tuthill and Darran Tuthill; her parents, Leo J. & Magdalene Goetzinger; her three sisters, Linda (Art) Berger, Gerry (Ed) Fleming and Elizabeth Ann (Merlin) Conrad; her five brothers, Leo John, Gene (Betty), James, Darrel (Shirley) & Robert Gene Goetzinger.

Marge is survived by her husband, Carl Tuthill of Dubuque, Iowa; four children, Becky (Paul) Shappell of Dubuque, Iowa, Margie (Lance) Thompson of West Chicago, Illinois, Tim (Carol) Tuthill of Durango, Iowa and Rod (Sharon) Tuthill of Dubuque, Iowa; twelve grandchildren, Emily Shappell, Catie (Doug) Frank, Alyse (Michael) Richards, Derek Thompson, Gabrielle Thompson, Courtney Tuthill, Laura (Jake) Trierweiler, Dakota Tuthill, Jessica Tuthill, Jason (Megan) Tuthill, Robert (Kaitlynn) Tuthill and Katelyn Tuthill; eight great grandchildren with a ninth on the way; one sister, Sharon (Don) Daniels of Bagley, Wisconsin and two sisters-in-law Rita Goetzinger and Janice Goetzinger of Cedar Rapids, Iowa.

The family would like to extend a special thank you to Dr. Ries and Dr. Chapman of Medical Associates Dubuque; the doctors, nurses, and staff of the 3rd Floor Medical Unit at MercyOne Dubuque; the nurses and staff of Hospice of Dubuque and the nurses and staff of Stonehill Communities of Dubuque, Iowa. Your help and guidance through this journey will not be soon forgotten.

Coni J. White

Coni J. White, a cherished mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend, passed away on March 18, 2024, at the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics in Iowa City, Iowa, at the age of 76. She was born on November 3, 1947, in Clinton, Iowa, to the late Elmer and Irene (Beck) Risinger.

A graduate of Maquoketa High School’s class of 1965, Coni embarked on a journey of love with former husband Russ Hart on May 20, 1967, in Maquoketa, Iowa. Their union blessed them with three wonderful children: Janelle, Ed, and Rusty. Though Coni and Russ later parted ways, love rekindled in her life when she met Michael Curtis White. Their hearts united in marriage on June 20, 1997, in Maquoketa, and they shared a devoted partnership until his passing on May 8, 2018.

Coni’s professional life initially embraced the role of a farm wife, and later contributed her skills to the Farrell Gas Company in Maquoketa. Her career path led her to working at the local Kentucky Fried Chicken for a time, followed by several years at the helm of Happy Joe’s. Ultimately, Coni found her calling in the kitchens of Maquoketa Schools, where she served as a beloved cook for 19 years before her well-deserved retirement.

Beyond her work, Coni relished the simple pleasures of life. She found joy in tending to her garden, and was known for her ability to socialize and connect with people from all walks of life. Most importantly, she cherished time spent with her family and friends, creating memories that would become their most treasured inheritance.

Coni’s legacy continues through her loving family. She is survived by her children, Janelle (Allen) Weimerskirch of Cedar Falls, IA, Ed (Kathy) Hart of Lake Mills, WI, and Rusty (Jay) Hart of Prescott, WI. Her memory will be held dear by her eight grandchildren, Lekeisha, Hali, Emma, Kelcey, Libby, Brian, Eddie, and Lucas, who brought immeasurable joy to her life. The light of her love will also shine on through her two great-grandchildren, Delia, and Lundyn.  She was preceded in death by her parents, and her husband Mike White.

A celebration of her life will be held at 11:30 A.M., Friday, March 29, 2024, at Carson Celebration of Life Center in Maquoketa.  Visitation will be held prior to the funeral from 9:30 to 11:15 A.M. at the funeral home.  Burial will be at Mount Hope Cemetery, Maquoketa.

In lieu of other expressions of sympathy, a Coni J. White memorial fund has been established.

Online condolences may be left at www.CarsonAndSon.com.

Mary L. Schulte

Mary L. Schulte, age 75, of Dubuque, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, March 18, 2024, at her home.  To honor Mary’s life, family and friends may visit from 1:00 p.m. until 3:45 p.m., on Sunday, March 24, 2024, at Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street.  Funeral services will be held immediately after visitation at 4:00 p.m., on Sunday at Behr’s with Rev. Steven M. Garner officiating.  Following cremation, burial will be in Linwood Cemetery at a later date.

Mary was born on April 17, 1948, in Dubuque, Iowa, daughter of Art and Dorothy (Heisler) Phillips.

She graduated from St. Boniface High School in New Vienna.  After school Mary attended hospitality training in Waterloo and then went to work with Ertl for a time.  She was married to Robert J. Schulte on November 29, 1969, at St. Boniface Church.  After they married Mary and Bob owned and operated RJ’s Septic Service and Excavating until Bob passed away on November 16, 1984.  Mary was never afraid of hard work, and after Bob’s passing she held 5 jobs at the same time.  She was employed at the Regal 8 Motel, The Big 10 Mart, Merry Maids, Suzanne’s Tanning and she bartended at Antonio’s.  Eventually Mary went to work at DuTrac Community Credit Union, retiring on August 20, 2020, after 39 years of service.  Mary’s faith was very important to her, helping her to weather the storms that life sent her way.  She was proud to be a long time member of Holy Ghost Church.  Mary loved her family and getting together with everyone.  Cooking for them was a favorite activity.  She was an excellent cook who started with a recipe, but always added her own special touches to make it even better.  She loved the water and whenever she could work a boat ride into her day she was thrilled.  Mary also enjoyed vacationing with her family.  Our hearts are deeply saddened at losing her so suddenly and unexpectedly.  Mary was an extraordinary woman, always wanting to help others and made the world a better place for all that knew her.  She was dearly loved and will be missed every day.

Those left to cherish Mary’s memory include

her daughter,
Paula Schulte, Dubuque, IA;

her siblings,
Larry (Jan) Phillips, Peosta, IA,
Janet Phillips, Dubuque, IA,
Loras Phillips, Dyersville, IA
and Diann (Dan) Michels, Cedar Rapids, IA;

her sister-in-law,
Susan Schulte, Earlville, IA;

and several nieces and nephews.

Mary was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Robert J. Schulte; her daughter, Sandy Schulte; a granddaughter, Taylor Marie Schulte; her father-in-law and mother-in-law, Lawrence and Francis Schulte; her sister-in-law, Melanie Phillips; and a brother-in-law, Ron Schulte.

Mary’s family would like to thank the 1st responders from the Dubuque Police and Fire Departments for their kindness and compassion during this difficult time.  Also a special thanks to Dr. Kahn, Dr. Whalen and their nurses and staff for all of the care they have provided for Mary.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorials in Mary’s honor which will be distributed in support of her favorite charities.  Cards may be mailed to Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, Dubuque, Iowa 52001, Attn. Mary Schulte Family.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.behrfuneralhome.com

Debra A. Ruh

Debra A. “Debbie” Ruh, age 64, (technically “Sweet 16″) of Dubuque, passed away peacefully at 5:31 p.m., on Monday, March 18, 2024, at Stonehill Heath Center after a short battle with cancer.  To honor Debbie’s life, family and friends may visit from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m., on Friday, March 22, 2024, at Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, where there will be a parish scripture service held at 3:45 p.m.  Funeral services will be held at 10:00 a.m., on Saturday, March 23, 2024, at Holy Spirit Parish, Holy Ghost Church, 2921 Central Avenue, with Rev. Jeff Frieden officiating.  Entombment will be in the Mt. Calvary Cemetery Mausoleum.

Debbie was born on Leap Day, February 29, 1960, in Dubuque, Iowa, daughter of Donald and Lorraine (Witt) Heming Sr.

She attended Holy Ghost Grade School and graduated from Hempstead High School in Dubuque.  She married the love of her life, Edward J. “Ed” Ruh, on May 28, 1983, at Holy Ghost Church.  The couple had a wonderful life together and completed their family when they adopted their son Joe in 1989.  Sadly Ed passed away on February 2, 2020, shortly before their 37th wedding anniversary.  She was a long time member of Holy Ghost Church in Dubuque.  Debbie was an extremely devoted wife and mom who loved to work.  She worked in the Environmental Services Department at Stonehill Franciscan Services, retiring after 11 years and also at Taco John’s for many years.  Her family was her greatest joy and Debbie especially looked forward to seeing the grandchildren any chance she could.  She loved spending time at the house in North Buena Vista fishing and just enjoying nature.  She was a fan of watching NCIS, Fire Country and all the Chicago shows on TV, and rooting on the Green Bay Packers and Chicago Cubs.  She also enjoyed quiet time doing word search puzzles.  Everyone who knew her knew that Debbie loved her ice cream treats and chocolate milk.  Debbie was a wonderful woman who made the world around her a better place.  We will miss her tremendously.

Those left to cherish Debbie’s memory include

her son,
Joe Ruh;

3 grandchildren,
Penelope (10), Olive (7), Holden (3) Ruh;

a brother,
Don (Lynne Lippert) Heming, Dubuque, IA;

her in-laws,
John (Phyllis) Ruh, Marion, IA
and Francine “Fran” Fagan, Dubuque, IA;

and many nieces and nephews.

Debbie was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Ed Ruh; 5 sisters, Pat (Don) Freiburger, Kay (Pete) Splinter, Dot (Bob) Hentges, Judy (Tom) Hanson and Sandy Heming; a brother-in-law, Aaron Fagan; and a sister-in-law, Marie Ruh.

Debbie’s family would like to thank the nurses and staff of Stonehill and Hospice of Dubuque for their kind and compassionate care of Debbie these past weeks.

The family will thankfully receive your support through greeting cards and memorials in Debbie’s memory which may be mailed to Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, Dubuque, Iowa 52001, Attn. Debbie Ruh Family.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.behrfuneralhome.com

Daniel A. Wulfekuhle

Daniel A. Wulfekuhle, 61, of Delhi, Iowa passed away Sunday, March 17, 2024, at University of Iowa Hospitals & Clinics surrounded by his loved ones.

Visitation will be held from 3 – 7:30 p.m. on Friday, March 22, 2024, at St. John’s Catholic Church in Delhi, Iowa.  Visitation will continue at St. John’s Catholic Church, from 9 – 10:15 a.m. prior to funeral mass.

Funeral services will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, March 23, 2024, at St. John’s Catholic Church in Delhi, Iowa with burial in the church cemetery.  Rev. Gabriel Anderson will officiate.

Dan was born on January 21, 1963 in Manchester, Iowa, the son of Lester and Elaine (Roling) Wulfekuhle.  He married Jane Pasker on May 16, 1987, in Manchester, Iowa. Together they began dairy farming in Colesburg, Iowa, before moving to Delhi in 1991.

Dan’s life was family and farming. He loved his grandchildren and their fourwheeler rides. He always made time for his daily snack of a Three Muskateers and Diet Pepsi with the dogs. He and Jane enjoyed a yearly vacation with their group of friends and family. He had a keen sense of humor and always enjoyed a good laugh. He also enjoyed a good card game during the winter months.

Survivors include his wife of 36 years, Jane; four children: Ryan (Tiffany) Wulfekuhle, Brett (Kelby) Wulfekuhle, Melissa (Michael) Relph, Megan Wulfekuhle; six grandchildren: Jayda, Elsie, Hallee Wulfekuhle, Emerson, Avery Wulfekuhle, Callum Relph; mother, Elaine Wulfekuhle; siblings: Rick (Deanne) Wulfekuhle, Marj (Steve) Albright, Ron (Arlene) Wulfekuhle, Sheri (Brian) Hastings, Russ (Jen) Wulfekuhle, Scott (Tina) Wulfekuhle, Kara (Ed) Dunham, Marty (Rita) Wulfekuhle, Tami (Michael) Klimpel; in-laws: Charlie (Nicole) Pasker, Fred (Deb) Pasker, Joyce (Gaylen) Brady, Don (Julie) Pasker; and many nieces and nephews.

Dan was preceded in death by his father, Lester; sister, Lori and five siblings in infancy; parents-in-law, Alphonse and Mae Pasker.

Kramer Funeral Home in Dyersville is assisting the family and information is available at www.kramerfuneral.com.  Memorials may be sent to the family, (in care of Kramer Funeral Home) 750 12th Ave SW, Dyersville, IA  52040.

Eric J. Burkholder

Eric J. Burkholder, age 51, of Dubuque, IA, completed his earthly journey on  March 17, 2024, at home while surrounded by his loving family and friends.  To honor Eric’s life, a private family service is being held.  The Tri-State Cremation Center is humbly serving Eric’s family.

Eric was born on September 16, 1972, in Cuba City, WI, a son to Clifford William Burkholder and Debra Jean Ludwig.  He kept life simple and enjoyed each moment as it came throughout his 51 years.  Eric was a faithful and loyal Wisconsin Badger and Green Bay Packer’s fan.  Whenever his teams took the field, Eric always enjoyed watching them and cheering them on to victory.  He also enjoyed spending time in the kitchen working on his next delicious meal.  Eric found great satisfaction in feeding those around him whenever possible and keeping everyone happy with full bellies at the end of the day.  But, all in all, Eric truly treasured the time he was able to sit and visit with his family and friends.  Conversations could go in any direction at any point, and Eric was always content to be in the mix when the opportunities arose.  We are going to miss Eric more than words could accurately depict.  His kind and gentle nature will definitely be missed by all who knew and loved him.  Thank you, Eric, for all of the positive influence and wonderful memories you leave behind and may the Lord keep you safe in His loving arms until we all meet again.

Those left behind to cherish the memory of Eric include,

his children,
Perry Burkholder,
Ethan Burkholder,
and Kelsey Galazin, all of Dubuque, IA;

his friend and partner of 11 years,
Rachel Myers, Dubuque, IA;

his father,
Clifford W. Burkholder, Cedar Rapids, IA;

his brother,
Mark (Kristy) Burkholder, Surprise, AZ;

along with numerous extended family, friends, and neighbors.

Eric was preceded in death by his mother, Debra Jean Ludwig; his grandson, Mateo Burkholder; his maternal grandparents, Richard (Marie) Ludwig; and his paternal grandparents, James (Shirley) Burkholder.

Eric’s family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Hospice of Dubuque for all of their professional and compassionate care.  We would also like to share a sincere expression of gratitude to all of Eric’s friends, especially Patty Johnson, who gave so much of their time and efforts to make Eric’s last days among us as comfortable as possible.  We will miss Eric dearly and are forever grateful for everyone who left a positive imprint on his life while we could.

Online condolences may be shared with Eric’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com

Emil B. Otting, Jr

Emil B. Otting Jr., age 74, of Dubuque, passed away at 12:55 a.m., on Sunday, March 17, 2024, at home with his loving family by his side. In keeping with Emil’s wishes, burial will be in Mt. Calvary Cemetery with full military honors accorded by the American Legion Post 6 at 10:00 a.m., on Saturday, April 6, 2024. Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street is assisting his family.

Emil was born on February 8, 1950, in Dubuque, Iowa, son of Emil Bernard and Anna Mae (Chapman) Otting Sr.

Emil lived in Dubuque his entire life where he attended Holy Ghost Grade School. After school, Emil proudly served his country in the U.S. Army on active duty for 2 years during the Vietnam War, and with the Army Reserves for another 20 years. He married Ruby Ward on August 2, 1969, at St. Mary’s Church. They built a wonderful life together and were blessed with 4 children and several grandchildren. Sadly, Ruby preceded Emil in death on October 5, 2018. Emil devoted his working career to Georgia Pacific, happily retiring after 47 years. He was a long time member of St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Dubuque where he volunteered helping with Bingo and cleaning the school. Emil loved his family and playing with the grandkids was one of his favorite activities. He was very loved and will be greatly missed by all of his family and friends.

Those left to cherish Emil’s memory include: his daughters, Kathy (Tim Loeffelholz) Reuter, Billie Jo Pospisil and Elizabeth (Shane) Vargas; his grandchildren, Nicolette (Robbie) Lange, Stephanie (Andrew) Maas, Brent Otting, Bristol Reuter, Stacie Jo Otting, Sydnie (Jerrell) Wardell, Emilie Pospisil and Timothy Pospisil; 7 great-grandchildren, Constance Lange, Lilyanna Otting, Lillian Lange, Amiyah Purnell, Micah Webb, Karianna Wardell and Ariah Webb; his siblings, Betty Otting, Rosemary Heim, Phillip (Melissa) Otting, Grace Brade, Helen (Mark) Mitchley and Christine (Kevin) Lyght; and his in-laws, Peggy Otting, Phyliss (Loras) Arensdorf, Gail (Chris) Huston, Raymond (Beverly) Ward, Cletus Ward, Ronald Ward Sr. and Eleanor Ward.

Emil was preceded in death by his parents; his wife, Ruby Otting; a son, Brian Otting; a grandson, Darren Bell; his father-in-law, and mother-in-law, Donald and Minnie Ward; his siblings, Sylvester Otting, Margaret (Johnny) Maize, Raymond Otting, Mary (Richard) Weber, Rachel Bartels; and his in-laws, Donald Ward Sr., Richard Ward, John Ward and Gary Ward.

Emil’s family would like to thank all of the wonderful people from Hospice of Dubuque for helping Emil and the family these past few weeks.

The family will thankfully receive your support through greeting cards and memorials in Emil’s memory which may be mailed to Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, Dubuque, Iowa 52001, Attn. Emil Otting Family.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.behrfuneralhome.com

David C. Fluhr

David C. “Dave” Fluhr 88 of East Dubuque, IL passed away at 10:53 am on Friday March 15, 2024 at Mercy One Medical Center Dubuque Iowa, following a brief illness.

Mass of Christian Burial will be 11 a.m. Thursday, March 21, 2024 at St. Mary’s Church in East Dubuque, with Fr. Dennis Vargas officiating.  Burial will be in the East Dubuque Cemetery, with military honors accorded by the Dubuque Marine Corps League and the Iowa Army National Guard.

Family and friends may call from 3:00 – 7:00 p.m. on Wednesday at the Miller Funeral Home in East Dubuque, where the parish prayer service will be said at 2:30 p.m.

Dave was born May 17, 1935 to Joesph and Anna (Sendt) Fluhr.  He attended East Dubuque High School. He served in the military from 1955-1957. Dave was formerly employed at Caradco Mfg, and retired from Loras College.

On September 13, 1958 Dave married the love of his life, Bonita (Bonnie) Larson at St, Mary’s Church in East Dubuque, IL.  They were married for 65 years.

Dave had many hobbies, he loved fishing, hunting, gardening, and trap shooting. He and his boys share many good stories of their big hunting and fishing adventures.

Dave cherished his family. He especially loved big family get together’s with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Those left to cherish Dave’s memory are his beloved wife, Bonnie; his 6 children Joe (Darla) Fluhr, Jackie (Barry) Figel, Lloyd Fluhr, Jean (Steve) Robey, Mark (Dawn Wigmann) Fluhr and Gerry (Rhonda Schildgen) Fluhr; 9-grandchildren, 15-great grandchildren and one great-great grandchild; his sister JoAnn Belken and In-laws Bob (Sharon) Holz and Ron (Karen) Larson; and nieces and nephews.

He was proceeded in death by his parents Joesph and Anna, his two brothers Ken (Mary) Fluhr and Tom (Mary) Fluhr, and his special daughter in law Carol A Fluhr, In-laws Edward and Irma Larson, Don (Carol) Larson, Mike Larson and Dallas Belken.

The family would like to thank Dave’s medical team who took wonderful care of him. Dr. Mark Moore, Dr. Ramabadran, Dr. Janes and Dr. Ringold.

In Lieu of flowers a Dave Fluhr memorial fund has been established.

Feel free to wear your favorite Fishing and hunting apparel.

Online condolences may be left for the family at www.millerfhed.com©

Delbert Klemme

Delbert “Delbie” Klemme, 63, of Bellevue and formerly of Preston, passed away on Saturday, March 16, 2024 surrounded by his family.  A Celebration of Life will be held Friday, March 22, 2024 from 5pm – 8pm at the Preston Town Hall, Preston, Iowa. A private family graveside service will be held at the Preston Cemetery.  Local arrangements are entrusted to Hachmann-Mier Funeral & Cremation Service in Bellevue.

Delbie was born May 11, 1960, the son of Eldon and Doris (Roe) Klemme. He enjoyed a cold Busch Light, trail rides, a good game of euchre, side-by-side rides, and spending time outdoors.  Delbert lived a life devoted to farming, fun, and an unwavering commitment to his family and friends. He will be sadly missed by all.

Survivors include his siblings, Peggy (Marty) Mancebo, Keith (Diane) Klemme, Nancy (Chuck) Bentley, and Dennis (Shelia) Klemme; and numerous nieces and nephews.

Delbie was preceded in death by his parents; sister, Karol Mootz; brother, Steve Klemme; nephews, Troy and Dustin Klemme; and niece, Joy Kaiser.

The family would like to express gratitude for the compassionate care provided by the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics, Jackson County Regional Health Center, and Hospice of Jackson County. We are forever grateful for the dedication of Delbie’s lifelong friend, Craig “Volgie” Volquardsen.

In honor of Delbie’s memory, the following individuals have been named honorary pallbearers; Todd Mangler, Jeff Gerlach, Doug Smithson, Bruce Weis, Virgil Kilburg, and Ricky Cunningham.

In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund has been established in Delbie’s name. Online condolences may be expressed to the family at www.hachmannfunderalhome.com(http://www.hachmannfunderalhome.com/).

Delbie’s legacy will live on in the fields he tended, the lives he touched, and the hearts of all
who were fortunate enough to know him.

Karla K. Schramm

Karla K. Schramm, age 67, of Dubuque, IA, completed her earthly journey on March 15, 2024, at Mercy Hospital in Dubuque, while surrounded by her loving family.  To honor Karla’s life, a Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.  The Tri-State Cremation Center is humbly serving Karla’s family.

Karla was born on February 10, 1957, in Maquoketa, IA, a daughter to George A. and Darien M. (Schraff) Hayward.  Her main focus in life has always been her family and friends.  In her early years, she shared her time and talents as a CNA with different facilities around town.  Karla eventually spent the last eleven years as a bus driver for the Dubuque Regional Transit Authority and enjoyed meeting many new faces along the way.  She enjoyed traveling whenever possible and a day trip was never out of the question.  Karla even made a trip to Hawaii with her mother a priority at one point and the memories of that wonderful trip remain today to help ease the pain of her absence from our daily lives moving forward.  When she wasn’t traveling or at work, Karla was determined to spend as much time as possible with her grandsons.  Her heart belonged to them and every hour they were together, Karla was surely in her happy place.  It’s difficult to imagine a world without Karla’s quiet and kind-hearted demeanor residing among us, but we trust that she is now free from her earthly health battles.  Thank you, Karla, for sharing your love where and when you could and may the Lord now grant you the peace you deserve as we await patiently to see your beautiful smile once again.

Those left behind to cherish the memory of Karla include,

her son, Richard Schramm II, Dubuque, IA;

her two grandsons,
Richie Schramm III,
and Mason Schramm, both of Dubuque, IA;

her mother,
Darien Hayward, Dubuque, IA;

her brothers,
Wade Hayward, Dubuque, IA,
and Larry Hayward, Bolivar, MO;

her sister-in-law,
Janice Hayward, Dubuque, IA;

along with numerous extended family, friends, and neighbors.

Karla was preceded in death by her father, George A. Hayward; her two infant grandsons at birth; her ex-husband, Richard Schramm;  her siblings, Susan Hayward, Louis Hayward, and Elaine (Larry) Flagel; her sister-in-law, Kathy Hayward; and her nephew, Chad Hayward.

Karla’s family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Mercy Hospital for all of their professional and compassionate care.

Online condolences may be shared with Karla’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com

Ronald Hixon

Ronald “Ron” Hixon, age 84, of La Motte, IA, passed away March 14, 2024, at the University Of Iowa Hospitals Neurosurgery ICU while surrounded by his loving family.  To honor Ron’s life, a private family service is being held at Grandview Methodist Church at a later date.

Ron was born June 20, 1939, in Portland, OR, to Paul and Ruby (Campbell) Hixon.  Several years later the family moved to Long Beach, CA, where they lived until moving to Nebraska to the family farm when Ron was seven years old.  He graduated from Chapel Nebraska High School.  He attended and graduated from college at Kearney, NE.  He married Janet Kay Erickson in October, 1960.  Together they raised two beautiful daughters.  They later divorced.  Ron taught shop at Dubuque Senior High School from 1968 until 1980 when he began teaching at NICC until his retirement in 2000.  Ron also served in the Naval Reserve for 22 years from which he retired.  During his time of service he served on various ships, in Germany, Korea and Spain.

In 2006, Ron married his best friend, Lois Trent, and they traveled many countries together.  He loved their home in the country and spending time with his children and grandchildren both here and in Colorado.  He was an avid military history buff and whenever he could capture someone’s attention he would love to engage them in a discussion.  He enjoyed sitting by the fireplace in the winter and loved looking at the Christmas villages which adorned the mantel.  During the spring and summer, you could find Ron enjoying the deck overlooking the property and watching the hummingbirds at the feeders. He also loved racing around the lane giving rides in the Kubota side by side to the grandkids and great-grandkids. Ron was a cancer survivor, but in recent times experienced some health issues which eventually led to the University of Iowa Hospitals.

Surviving besides his wife, Lois Hixon, La Motte, IA; are his daughters, Cheryl (Jan) Knibbe, Foxfield, CO, and Chris (Randy) George, Colorado Springs, CO.  Four grandchildren: Kelsy (Greg) Stahl, Erin (Andrew) Evans, Kyle Knibbe, Erica (Andrew) Candia; and great-granddaughter, Kiera Candia.  Four step-children: Pamela (Scott) Scales, Durango, IA, Daniel (Hyun Sook) Trent, Cedar Rapids, IA, Karen (Kyle) Snay, St. Peter, MN, and Thomas (Amy) Trent, Coralville, IA.  Nine step-grandchildren: Shelby (Cody) Lange, Sabrina Scales, Samuel Scales, Connor Snay, Rowan Snay, Lauren Trent, Joshua Trent, Sang Huck (Mike) Lee, and Soo Hyun (Kara) Lee. One step great-grandson, James Lange.  Two brothers: Gary (Carol Ann) Hixon, and Tim (Kathy) Hixon, both of Ft. Collins, CO; many nieces and nephews; and former wife, Janet Hixon.

He was preceded in death by his parents, and aunts and uncles.

The family wishes to thank all of the staff at the University of Iowa Hospital Neurosurgery Unit, along with the Palliative/Hospice Care for their compassionate care and concern.

Online condolences for Ron’s family may be left at www.tristatecremationcenter.com